my boyfriend and i are in a long distant relationship and my boyfriend says he loves me very much but i cant help thinking hes cheating on me because he has a myspace page and he has all these girls telling him that they love him.. Hes always on the phone with some girl and he says he always want to come see me but "hes working". he always accuse me doing wrong because of the things ive done in my past and because i have alot of male friend so he thinks i have to be sleepin with them. He does not trust me with my friends because he thinks im going there to sleep with some other dude. i cant spend more then 10 minutes alone with my baby daddy unless im on the phone with him because he thinks im sleepin with him again. he also bitches if my sons father calls just to see how this sons doing or if i call there to check on him when hes at his dads. when he come to see me its always about me and my son there is no question about what im doing but when hes home id different. what do i do?????
2007-03-17 07:01:30 · 8 answers · asked by sabrina q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who have a loose charecter thinks his/her partner is also like them.Forget it!!Just try to explain the things nicely .If it works then its ok else tell him that hes also having so many gf then whats d prob. if u have few? Ask him does he sleeps wid them?? B bold buddy.There should b trust n each other n love.U too dont doubt just like that without any evidence.Coz there is no medicine 4 that.If u want to continue wid him ,u ppl need trust n eachother.
2007-03-17 07:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all long distance relationships almost never work.But you have a bigger problem then that.TRUST is everything in a relationship/marriage without trust you have nothing and you have already said that your boyfriend does not trust you.You are wasting your time with this guy because he is immature for starters.If you have a child from another relationship and you can olny communicate with your child's father if your boyfriend listens to the entire conversation that is absolutely rediculous.I suggest you end your so called relationship with this immature insecure boy.Move on and meet a grown man..This guy or boy will never trust you because he is too insecure..Good Luck to you.Remember TRUST is everything without it you have NOTHING..
2007-03-17 15:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your both thinking the other is cheating? Thats a downfall to long distance relationships. They seldom work. Make sure this is what you both want and go from there. Is there any possibility of either of you moving closer?
2007-03-17 14:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl!!!!!!!!!! plez if he does not trust you...... then that means that he does not love you! i mean u have proof that u think he is cheating on u but he does not have proof on u that u r cheating on him! just let him go. they will be other guys in your life that will love, and trust you! you deserve trust!!! long distance relationships don't really work out! try to find someone that u can see all the time! take my advice!
2007-03-17 14:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by stace face 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as u were saying..it's a long distant relationship, and to be true, to me it doesn't seem to be a relationship...u don't trust him, he doesn't trust u..and you are away from eachother..frankly, u should talk to him, face to face, get to a point, but if things are the same after the talk...dump him..it won't work...
2007-03-17 14:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sabrina dont listen to all these other people if you dont have proff that hes cheatin stay with him.. who care if its a long distance thing...... It not like you can find a good man were you live or in the closed city is from you were its a crack town... STAY WITH HIM!!!!!!
2007-03-17 14:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
niether of you trust 1 another! you both should move on. trust and faith in god are the most important things of a relationship.and it doesn't sound like either 1 of you have neither. i'll pray for you both!!! god bless you sweetheart!
2007-03-17 14:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is jealous of anything you do, but doesnt want it to apply to him. You need to move on honey, find a real man that can handle a real woman!
2007-03-17 14:07:26 · answer #8 · answered by lee911 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋