Okay, i dont understand what's special about eye contact as a sign a guy likes you. Everyone looks me in the eyes when I talk but I dont understand, what should you really look for when a guy is looking you in the eyes, I mean what makes it special? Answers please! Thanks! =]
2007-03-17 06:50:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is interested, he will hold your gaze for a little longer than is usually necessary. He will also angle his body toward you to show his interest. Sometimes he will even lean in. This is a good video that demonstrates how to tell if someone likes you by body language. http://www.videojug.com/film/how-can-i-tell-if-he-is-attracted-to-me
2007-03-17 06:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kewpie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is a body language. The certain look of the eyes do indicate interest. Any body can look you in the eyes while talking to you and it does not mean anything at all. However,
If you get eye contacts from different angles from men you don't know, in my opinion, that is an indicator of some degree of interest.
If you find a lot of men attracted to you, you should recognize these clues. If you don't recognize these clues, you must be young with little experience.
Believe it or not, some men are afraid of being rejected.
If you are really attractive, some men may feel intimidated by your striking beauty if you appear snobbish and high.
I don't know how old you are in life but , you will learn over time.
2007-03-17 18:39:48 · answer #2 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm right there with you. Eye contact is very over rated.
I was really shy as a kid and eye contact was hard for me because I thought people could see how insecure I was. I've got news for you. To this day I'm not looking you in the eye. I'm picking a spot on your brow or between your eyes and faking it. I haven't met anyone in years who knows the difference.
2007-03-17 06:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, just because they look you in the eye...If you are talking to someone and catch a guy's eye and you get butterflies or your heart rate speeds up, that's what makes it special. If he's feeling the same thing, that's what will make his eyes follow you. That little something extra, a spark, makes the eye contact special.
2007-03-17 07:00:11 · answer #4 · answered by . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he looks at you mouth the word "Hi" or smile and then maybe after awhile of doing that u or him will get the nerve to really talk to him. He seems like a really nice guy so even if you ask him out he wont reject you meanly and how will you ever know if he likes you with out putting yourself out there. I have made that same mistake before by not talking to the guy sooner and hes happy with is girlfriend all because i didn't have the nerve to tell him how i felt.. I'm happy for you because u have the opportunity to have a boyfriend. So good luck! can i have the 10 points?
2016-03-16 22:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is a ploy for guys to hook up with women to have sex. If a guy talks to women and looks them straight in the eyes women may feel that he is paying attention to them. The saying goes; " You can see a persons soul through their eyes". If someone is making eye contact when speaking to you pay close attention to their body language as well. That's all I've got. And no I'm not gay. Hope this helps.
2007-03-17 06:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by cy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Many people think when your giving eye contact more people will understand that your telling the truth. When a guy gives you eye contact see what going up. Maybe he likes you and wants you to know that and a man that gives you eye contact shows he is really passionate and cares and respects women so if you find out he likes you and always gives you eye contact try going out with him and see. I bet he is really caring and wants women to be treated like royalty.
2007-03-17 06:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Ju. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you can't really tell if a guy likes you if he's looking you in the eye while you're talking,but if he's looking at you across the room or something,then that's a signal.Girls always tell us to keep eye contact so we appear confident.
2007-03-17 06:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent u ever heard: Ur eyes are the gateway into ur soul
Believe it or not, ur eyes tell alot about u...it tells about ur personality (compassionate, mean, cold, generous) so if a guy is looking u in the eyes, dont look confused just act normally cuz people can see confusion in other's eyes and then they will think that u dont like them
2007-03-17 06:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The eyes are the window to the soul"
The special thing about the eyes is that your eyes can't lie. On top of that, there is just something that appeals to me about the eyes. Maybe that's just me though. It's the first thing I notice in a girl.
And let's be honest, have you ever seen someone with 'ugly' eyes? I know I haven't.
2007-03-17 06:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you feel that tick of nervousness in your belly? Can you feel a slight dizziness? Does it seem like everyone else has left the area? Do you feel totally helpless and empowered at the same time? DO YOU know he feels the same way? Can you look inside yourself and like what you see, and know that he sees you that way? Eye contact is not a fleeting ritual where you can just hypnotize someone and be gone. It shows you who you are, and at the same time displays who you are. If your disgusted with someone, can you look them in the face? How about disappointed? Hurt? Eye contact doesn't just show you him, it shows you YOU. What he sees in YOU. You don't look at someone to see who they are, you look at them to see what part of YOU is in them. And if you don't see that good value, that virtue you admire in yourself in them, you break contact. But if you do...
Make sure to get the numba playa!!
2007-03-17 07:02:52 · answer #11 · answered by atlazdrama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋