What do I talk about?

Question

I have been on 2 dates with this guy. i really like him and I am sure he feels the same. We are both 20 and very shy. i am kinda new to this and dont know what to talk about and what not to talk about. Advice?

Answer 1

drop him hints saying u like him..or perhaps if u want to speel it all out, e-mail him instead.

Answer 2

I was pretty shy at dates too... Well first after asking about eachother's names ask anything like (when's your birthday?) (what's your favorite color?) anything that will keep the conversation short, you would want to know if you and your date has anything in common before anything. Then move on to a question like (what are your hobbies, what do you do on your free time when you're bord?) or maybe ask about the person's backround, where they're from, born at, how many brother's and sisters he has-anything that you can answer after he does. Then ask him some personal questions like- (What do he look for in a female?) not anything too personal. Somebody out of the date have to ask questions, you both can't stay shy. It just wont work. Have confidence, feel comfortable, relax, remember when you're out on a date, you're there to study the other person to see if that person is worth going out with again, & to see if that person is right for you. Have him talk as well, have him ask questions- offer, say ( is there anything you would like to know about me?)( any questions in mind?) Keep it simple, short conversations about some subjects that have no point talking about. Dont talk about your past relationships, no guy wants to hear about those things unless they ask and they're curious, but the main key is not to stay stuck on the same subject for a long time. Represent yourself well, no guy wants to get the impression of you being an easy female. Dont talk alot about yourself, if he wants to know something about you he'll ask. Just don't keep conversations on you. Well I hope this helps Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

you should just relax and ask him what he is interested in and then just play it off for that day say something like thats cool and then on your own time google some of his interest and learn a little about them and then you can really have a full depth conversation, you can also talk about simple things like family and experience believe it or not alot of people find it interest to find out the live of other people and I dont mean what you ate last nite i mean how was high school like did you like it what did you not like, what is the worst experience you have ever had, things that affect your live is a good things to talk about.

Answer 4

Talk about anything and everything. As long as its halfway interesting. I usually try to find something funny that happened in the day and get my foot in the door with that. Then slowly develop into other areas of interest. The easiest thing to do is ask questions, but also leave yourself open to receiving questions.

Answer 5

People generally like it when you show sincere interest about them. So encourage him to speak about himself. It would be great if you knew what he is really interested in - some hobby or his job. Once you find out what he is keen on, you'll be able to keep the conversation going on for hours. If you still don't know, find out! Ask him questions like: "So what do you like doing in your free time?" , "How did you spend the day?" , "Did you enjoy work/school today?". Also it is a good idea to ask him about his opinion about different topics - current event, some movie, what kind of movies he likes, who is his favorite participant in some reality show...You can ask him also about his favorite place to spend the weekends, like which is his favorite seaside resort and why he likes it so much...the list is endless.A good idea for starting a definite topic is: "I really like/hate something and then ask him about his view. But watch out - that's not a questionnaire, so you'll also have to share about yourself. The basic idea though is to show him that you are truly interested in him and that his opinion is important to you. Good luck.

Answer 6

I don't think I would email him if I were you...Maybe you guys could hang out with mutual friends in a group or something (make sure you are close to him and not other guys, it might confuse him) and bring up how much fun, etc you all have and that you want to keep hanging out....you guys will realize that you like each other in no time!

Answer 7

You can talk about your hobbies , about your work or studies , musik and anything just start talking and everything will be ok the conversation will go smoothly. But a subject you'd better avoid is marriage , long term relationships , kids and all these things. It's too early to talk about them.

Answer 8

Besides asking him all the standard questions, like asking all about his family, you can talk about sports if you like sports, ask him questions about what his favorite things are: Fav color, favorite childhood memory, favorite cartoon from when you were kids-, favorite movies, favorite bands, ask about the first pet he ever had, where would he want to go if he could travel anywhere. Once you get talking it gets easy to keep the dialect going. Good luck.

Answer 9

One night while your alone just look to him and say you think he's an amazing guy... and smile. Guys always like to hear good things about themselves, and when you tell him how you feel, he'll return the favor

Answer 10

just one time you are on a date at the movies lean on him a little he might be a little scard but he will tell you like him ALOT and if you really want him to no...on a date at a resterant kiss him (befor the food) say something like i am really happy i am with you then lean in and...

Answer 11

Ask him friendly questions and try to find out what interests him. When he answers with more than one sentence you'll know you've hit the jackpot.