There`s this guy who gave me his number last week and we`d been texting and speaking on the phone,he said he liked me.He`s now ignoring me because he text me last night and asked if it was alright for him to call me soon,my phone ran out of charge and i didn`t get the text till much later.So he didn`t phone,why didn`t he just phone anyway?I text him today and explained what happened and he hasn`t text me back.
I see him when i`m in his work and he`s working tonight and i`m not even bothering to go in and feel weird around him.I wish he`d just stop playing silly games.I do quite like him and he seemed keen as well but now i don`t know where i stand with him,i`m certainly not going to call him or text again as the ball is now in his court.
Should i just forget about him?He text me yesterday after we had a bit of a mix up and said he is interested in me and if i`m not interested in him then just tell him,i don`t know if i`m making him think i`m not interested,advice appreciated.
2007-03-17 06:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't not go in to where he works, it might be easier to see his reaction face to face rather than trying to predict the context of the messages!!!!!
take the time if he seems pleased to see you to explain that your phone really was out of charge and that you did want to speak to him. if he is avoiding you then smile very brightly and enjoy your night, before putting him to the back of your mind and find someone who will treat you like a princess and not bother if your phone dies!!!!
2007-03-17 06:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by squeegy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im really sick and tired of you females personally.
If you want him let him know. This "playing the games" bullsh..t is really getting old.
He's probably had to deal with so much of you girls mood swings and cowardly behaviour that when you didn't return his msg he thought you were just another flake.
Ever had to do sales, you know how you don't want to talk to a customer because youve been rejected over and over before, well thats how being a guy feels and when you approach that 5oth customer and they don't look you in the eye you just say 'forget it' and move on.
2007-03-17 13:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Its me 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the reason he may not have just called you anyway might be because he thought it was too late and wasn't sure if you were up or didn't want to disturb you. i would drop by his work tonight, and just see what happens.
if you do like him, then go for it! it's not worth having regrets about not doing what you could've done.
i wish you luck !
+ have a great st. patty's day !
2007-03-17 13:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by you - with the face :D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, and tell him why you didn't text him back and that you are interested too.
Not hard, obviously the guy is interested, and so are you.
Good luck.
2007-03-17 13:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by peachy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he cant handle a simple mix up its his problem.... theres no need to sacrifice your work over him being a complete idiot...i would take a leaf out of his book and ignore him
2007-03-17 13:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by guruoftheweb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate these sorts of relationships, textual messaging, dont be a girl just ring him, us blokes prefer that when it comes to serious talking, texting is just for flirting..... stop reading this and ring him now......
2007-03-17 13:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by james o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep playing the game! One day you'll be married and unbelivably you will miss all these daft games with boys!
2007-03-17 13:40:05 · answer #7 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you are interested in him, then let him know. just like he told you, if you are not interested in him, let him know. he probably wants to start something w/ you. just tell him if you are interested in him.
2007-03-17 13:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by nicole r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the mix up made him think that you were blowing him off. and you stop playing games as well. if you like him............tell him........
2007-03-17 13:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its meant to be,it will be.
Why dont you call him and explain right away?
2007-03-17 13:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋