2007-03-17 06:30:37 · 29 answers · asked by Florida Mom 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
STRICT rules and do not let her go to parties and leave the house dressed inapropriately...keep a very close eye on her and give her privledges only when she shows her responsibility level is high enough to deserve them
2007-03-17 06:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by JLee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that no matter what she does, you will still love her!!!
Tell her that you wish that there was some way you could help her to walk a path that won't lead her to self loathing but if she continues down the path she is on, you won't support it but you will ALWAYS be there when she needs you! & believe me she is going to need you. Her self worth has obviously been affected somewhere along the way & there may be NOTHING you can do to stop her behavior. She may just need to go through some sh#t before she wakes up & if she knows that you love her then when it's over she will have a soft place to land. No matter what she does or how bad it gets, find the strength EVERY DAY to tell her you love her & that she is always special & worthwhile to you. Tell her that you will NEVER give up on her or turn your back on her!! Fighting her is just going to push her further down this path she is already on!! Just remember when how precious she was when she was born. She is just as precious today & NOTHING should EVER change that!!! & more important than anything LET HER KNOW THIS, EVERY DAY!!!!! Good Luck & remember to Take Care of yourself!!!
2007-03-23 00:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by icareboutyu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG how underage are we talking??? 10-14 or 14-17???
10-14 , (sighs heavily) I remember those days.. I was becoming more aware of my body and what it was starting to look like..I was impressed with what my body was doing ALL by itself and showing it off was kind of like bragging. Mainly b/c I was developing faster than the "more popular" girls and essentially rubbing their faces in it..LOL
14-17 was all about getting the boys attention (what else?)
Just explain that the attention she is getting, although it may be flattering , could only lead to BAD things.That those boys that "like" her only like her for the possibility that she may give it up to them. If she doesn't take the advice you give her, make her volunteer at a rape crisis center..EXTREME I know, but it may be the best resource out there for this type of problem...Or you could have her daddy prop a shotgun by the front door...LOL just joking( or am I?)
2007-03-25 03:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by heatherclhn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how old is she? and why is this so difficult? YOU say this is what you are wearing today, and if she says no, you say, fine, sit in your room until you either put this clothing on or stay here, we can try this again tomorrow, now, that is if it is a clothing problem, if it is, before you do as I suggested, remove all the clothing you find distasteful, throw it away or donate it. If it is her actions, don't allow her to be in situations where she can act this way, if she wants to go out just say no, or say OK, we can go together, and do it, don't let her out alone for a while.
2007-03-22 05:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For starters don't call her a slut. Try to get her involved in other things. Tell her how special she is and that sex is better when it is with some one that you truly love. If you are feeding her negative insults all the time like calling her a slut. Then you are pushing her farther away. You need to sit and have along talk with her and let her know that you love her. And know matter what she does you always will. But you don't want to see her become pregnant before she is ready.The harder you push the farther she will go.
2007-03-17 06:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old is she? You can add information to what you've already written. People are asking for a reason, so if you can answer them it might help.
Who buys her clothes? Whose house rules does she follow?
A promiscuous girl is looking for love and approval. She could also be living up to the standards or names she's been called.
What do you wear? Do you have alot of "sleepovers" with men you're dating?
Immitation is the best form of flattery.
2007-03-25 05:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her to boot camp! That should scare the crap out of her! It's gonna cost you, but you need to figure out if the money is well spent, look at it like this, you can either: (a) spend $20K on boot camp, (b) spend $20k paying for the necessities during her pregnancy and the first year of her babies life.
They tend to get pregnant. Figure out if you are pro-life or pro-choice because it WILL come up really soon once she starts sleeping around.
good luck.
2007-03-25 04:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by wwhrd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure what you are saying that your teenage daughter is a slut.first thing i would stop saying that,if she is rebelling that is only making it worse.i would try finding out what is going on in her head and if she wouldn't discuss then we would go to some individualcounseling along with some family counseling.i think it is important to try to work together as a family to resolve the issues we each face together no matter how difficult it is for us as adults to understand the troubles our children face.we must show them we will stand together as a united front against the demons they face.
2007-03-21 19:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break it to you, but if ur daughter wants to be a slut shes gonna be a slut, if you make her dress appropriately, all shes gonna do is take the appropriate clothing off when shes doing slut stuff...im mean...Yes.. dont let her dress slutty, just set a good example, and scare her with genital warts, and a bad reputation...but...again...she could be come an undercover slut..
2007-03-23 08:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by QUITTA Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does she know the consequences of the being a hoe? STD's are major problem nowadays. Some of them stds are there for rest of your life. ANd then theres AIDS. Or she may end up pregnant, is she or you ready to take care of kids. And ppl will be talking about her. I wish you the best of luck with dealing with that.
2007-03-17 08:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋