I went to this restaurant one time with a friend and I had this nice looking waitress. At the conclusion of the meal, I tipped her and asked for her number. I called her later and that same week, we went out and we had sex. She told me it was really great. She understood we were just causally having sexs and nothing would come of it. I have not talked ot her since. A few weeks later, I went to that same restuarant and got the same waitress. We talked briefly and as usual, she gave great service. Because I gave her great sex previously, should I now tip her at the restaurant? I don't feel I have to.
2007-03-17 06:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You should always tip your waitress for good service in the restaurant. And if you tip her well, you can feel good about that experience and be fairly sure that the next time you eat there, if you get her as a waitress again you will get great service again.
2007-03-17 06:37:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. You didn't need to leave her a tip for the one night stand, but you should leave a tip for the service every time you go to the restaurant. If you go to a restaurant and your mother is the waitress, you should leave a tip (if the service is good). Doesn't matter what the relationship outside of the event is - if you are eating out, and the service is good, you should recognize that financially.
2007-03-17 06:36:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work skills and what a person does when off duty are two separate issues. Even though I don't agree with casual sex just because of disease issues alone, doesn't imply anything about work habits. If you are having second thoughts about this woman, why not try asking her out again and see if she's changed her mind about just having casual sex, especially if you really like her for other reasons. Otherwise, tip her for good waitress service and move on to someone new because this doesn't sound like a positive long term relationship for you.
2007-03-17 06:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by kriend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Business you had outside the restaurant stays outside the restaurant. You brag about giving her good sex. Sounds as if the service there was mutual and you two are even.
If her waitress service was good, you should tip accordingly.
2007-03-17 06:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tip any person who serves your meal. It is their job. Your activities outside the restaurant have nothing to do with it; when you are in the restaurant, you are a customer and the waiter/waitress gets paid for service.
2007-03-17 06:35:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd imagine it depends on her level of service as a waitress. your previous social encounter has very little to do with your business relationship. if she waits on you well go ahead and tip her, if not... don't. you don't owe her tips because you had sex. that would be tantamount to prostitution and I'm sure she would rather you just kept the two apart .
good luck.
2007-03-17 06:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by killkillneil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that the sex you gave her is going to put food on her table or pay her bills, then by all means, don't tip her anymore. You sound like you think way too much of yourself for your own good, or anybody elses for that matter.
2007-03-20 14:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tip the usual 15 to 20%
2007-03-17 16:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the service good? (Both in the restaurant and out?)
Plan on hitting that again?
30% if yes, 15% if no.
2007-03-19 11:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tough Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because she was such a "gentle-woman" not to tip you for having sex with you, it does not mean that you (gentleman ?) should not tip her after having get a great service, as you say.
2007-03-17 06:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Raffaele D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋