few months weve been hanging out a lot and getting closer weve never had sex or anything but we do cuddle up with each other and talk and watch TV ect its really an emotional relationship the problem is he lives in another country and does have a wife back home
2007-03-17 06:01:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, you have your own McDreamy. He's put you in a really awkward position here; first of all as your boss you shouldn't be having a relationship with him and secondly he's MARRIED, and he lives in another country... it's really lose lose here.. I think you really need to talk to him about what he's doing. Tell him you don't want any animosity between the two of you but this is heading towards a place that is very messy. You need to have some respect for yourself here, you don't want to be the 'other woman'. He may not have had sex with you but he is emotionally cheating on his wife. I don't know if you're a believer of 'once a cheater, always a cheater', but if his wife can no longer satisfy him emotionally (and what seems like it will soon turn to sexually) then how can you be sure that IF he left his wife for you then he wouldn't do the same again?
I think you need to find a man who is willing to be committed to YOU and not have you as just a 'bit on the side'. You're worth more than that. I know it's not easy to do, but you need to be the responsible one here. Good luck.
2007-03-17 06:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called, "Having Your Cake And Eating It Too".
I have no doubt that your feelings are real but when it comes time for him to go home what or who will he choose?
I'm sorry but you are a distraction in another country with no permanent ties, get out of this before your heart is broken or you lose your job.
2007-03-17 13:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by bashfulstranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stealing away emotional investments that belong to his WIFE. Have you no self-respect? Treat yourself better than this, stop hanging out with your boss, and focus on a guy who is actually available.
2007-03-17 13:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful.....he lives in another town and that makes it impossible to even know he's married or has a girlfriend....don't get cut up in mixed emotions cause you'll end up getting hurt.....remember...a boss can easily get anybody they want......do be extra careful.....
2007-03-17 13:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are sick, you don't need to be worried about the fact that he is your boss, you should be worried about the fact that he is married! Do you have no morals that you live by?
2007-03-17 13:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samantha, find a peaceful place where you can think alone by yourself, and ask yourself this question: what does my conscience tell me? There is your answer.
2007-03-17 13:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dowland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its allways a great way to get on his good side right?
2007-03-17 13:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋