2007-03-17 05:59:15 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would rather work for a living, I am not for sale, and even if you fount the most wonderful man in the world, things change the only person anyone can count on is themselves, Don't wake up at 40-50 and have no life skills, men leave their wives everyday for a younger model. Work and learn who you are and build yourself a life and still enjoy being spoiled you can have it all .
2007-03-17 06:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Thelma C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both, I don't want to be too spoiled, I do want to feel I am helping out in some way and not totally helpless, but then again it feels good when you have a guy who cares about you enough to take care of you and love you.
2007-03-17 13:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by The Guys Call me Rish... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather have a morning part time job so that I have my own money, & then be home in the afternoons so I could have time for a few hrs of housework so when he comes home from his 8 hr day I can spoil him,then on week ends he can spoil me with his time & attention.
2007-03-17 13:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by fairy53042000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like being spoiled. But Im a hard worker. I think that it should be for both the man and the women. they should both be spoiled some time. Im a kind of girl that likes to give to my man:)
2007-03-17 13:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by Faith C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely like to work hard. Being spoiled by a guy for the rest of your life is patronizing and outdated. These are the years of the career woman, and I'm damn sure going to enjoy them.
2007-03-17 16:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nice to be spoiled to a certain degree but not totally spoiled. and to know the guy actually loves you. Also I would have to say work also so we can show we are independent if he decides to leave and we can do it on our own.
2007-03-17 13:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of both. It's always nice to be splurged on and have fun and knowing that there is some guy there to take care of you. But also, it's hard for women like me to just sit on your @$$ all day and not do nothing. I mean women in the past have been working so hard for womens' rights. And also it can be fun to have the feeling of "Yay, I'm working hard for myself!" and know that you're making your own money.
2007-03-17 13:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be spoiled but be able to work for a living.
2007-03-17 13:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. It's nice to be spoiled once in a while but there's nothing like the feeling of being able to take care of yourself independent of your marital status and such
2007-03-17 13:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by abby j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, spoiled and taken care of is best but overly. Not so much that I don't have anything to do or opinions.
2007-03-17 13:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by crazylove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋