See thing is i love this girl very much and she does too. we are both 19 and i plan on marrying her one day in the future we've been together for a long time now and we are positively ready and sure about having sex{i prefer making love} we kiss and do allot of stuff and we cant take it anymore we are really ready but i don’t know what she expects we are both virgins and i want to make it the most pleasurable exiting romantic memorable night of her life so can you help me out what should a first time be like how do you orgasm from passion on a first time and i know about the discomfort and the bleeding stuff how do i make her enjoy it not a stage that's going to pass and how do i control my self and not loose it real quick i want to last as long as i can and we want to finish together i know that's alot but i want our first time to be romantic is that bad.{please dont give me that wait till your married and a serrious anser,i prefer ladies to anser and guys if you have any info.thanx
2007-03-17 05:50:55 · 11 answers · asked by whywhatwherehowwhenwho 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Slowly. Take your time to discover each other
2007-03-17 05:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats really nice. Ok so what you have to understand is that its rare for a woman to orgasm the fisrt time she has sex..mainly because its a new experience for the body and it can cause some pain for both partners. But that doesnt mean it cant be good. Make it romantic maybe put some music on nothing too cheesy.. maybe just a few songs that mean alot to both of you :) Then just be gentle..enjoy it yourself without worying too much about what your doing.. she'll be new at it too so she wont really know what to expect will she? But you do need to ask (the first time you push) if shes ok.. and iim sure she'll say yes.. just dont push too rapidly... take it slow and it will be great you also want to kiss her allot and tell her you love her during making love.
and after wards tell her you love her.. and cuddle up to her in bed :)
2007-03-17 09:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how you do it for the first time, all I can tell you is that if you are really ready and you are sure you love her, go ahead. All you need to do is look in the magazines, they have a bunch of stuff on sex techniques! Sorry I couldn't help you anymore than that! Good luck and God bless you both! I hope you have a happy marriage sometime in the future!
2007-03-17 05:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by loving live:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot expect to have the most romantic experience ever for the first time when you are both inexperienced. Making love and having orgasms takes time. Be patient and in time you will both experience the kind of love making you both desire. Don't be impatient.
Good Luck.
2007-03-17 05:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by devilgal031948 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its the first time for both of you. It wouldn't matter. Because if you try to do it.
The way someone tells you to. It might not work for you, and then it would be a waste.
No it wouldn't matter. neither one of you ,would know if you made a mistake, or not.
You need to let things come natural, andwhen you both are comfortable with each other.
Don't litsen to anyone ,but your self, thats the best advice one can get. If you listen to someone else, as i said. It may work for them, but not for others.
Do whatever you both are, comfortable with.
2007-03-17 06:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 22:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose it depends on your meaning of "romantic" because some people like it rough and consider that romantic and others like it slow and hard. If it's your first time I suggest that you take it easy on her and if she says stop then stop and listen to what she has to say. Try your best not to say anything other than "I love you" and stuff like that or it'll ruin it.
I'm not saying I've made love before, but that's my opinion.
2007-03-17 05:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by rosesofchaos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can play soft music in the background which fits the ambience you want. Try not to be a little too rushed, or it will ruin everything.
2007-03-17 06:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by Xaelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO PLAN A GOOD PLACE FIRST.THEN MAKE SURE THAT YOU WILL NOT BE INTERRUPT.TAKE IT NICE AND EASY.SLOW AND GENTLE.IN A REAL GOOD PLACE WHERE YOU CAN ALWAYS REMEMBER IT.MUSIC OF YOUR KIND,SOFT TOUCHING AND EVERYTHING EASY.AND THAT WILL DO THE TRICK.GOOD LUCK
2007-03-17 06:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby u sould Waite until ur mereed...
2007-03-17 06:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋