how do you deal with judgemental people?

Question

one who is always giving his opinion even when not asked; and always judges things but does not like it when you do the same many times.

Is like he can do and be things but you can't, but can be flexible at times only is frustrating not to have better arguments to prove they are not right on it all.

How do you handle that?

Answer 1

Just tell him Opinions are like a$$holes everybody got one and they all stink.

Answer 2

Opinions are like rectums ,,,, Every one has got one ,,,,

You need to ask him who made him an authority on anything and does he have any documentation to that effect ,,,,

That if anyone wanted his opinion He would be asked ,,,,

He needs to be told that his opinions and thoughts are not the bottom line or end of story where anything is concerned ,,,, You might also work it into the conversation that he's an inconsiderate ,, obnoxious ,, immature ,, selfish and self centered ,, egotistical idiot ,,,,

Not always but sometimes that's the only kind of treatment that can breach the thick skull of some one like that ,,,, They are so puffed up with themselves and any one who doesn't agree with them is that rectum mentioned earlier ,,,, His ego blinds him to the reality about his real self ,,,, He's so wrapped up in himself that he's not intelligent or aware enough to see himself the way others do ,,,, He embarrasses himslelf in front of other people and doesn't even know it ,,,,

I can't stand people like that myself and when I do run into someone that has that problem nothing gives me more pleasure than to get it settled first off ,,,,

This person definitely sounds like he needs a good dose of your opinion ,,,,

Good luck with this and enjoy ,,,, Good post ,,,, you got a star from me for it ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,

Answer 3

dont worry the psychological background of these people are always filled with childhood criticism against them , and somehow they feel they should empty their subconscious burden into people or stuff they find faulty , as a way of relieve , what u should do first is to understand where they are coming from , sometimes his judgmental nature is somehow needed to make better a certain thing and sometimes all you have to do is ignore such jugdments , for they are only coming from a mind that needs understanding and healing

Answer 4

If you can't prove him wrong, then maybe he really is always right. Still, I know it's annoying for people to flaunt stuff like that. So just stop talking to him. Well, first tell him why you think he's annoying, and then stop talking to him.

Answer 5

SMILE =thank this person for their UNASKED FOR advise and tell them you will give their UNASKED FOR opinion the consideration you feel is appropriate.....then ask a favor of him...that favor being a request ....POLITELY ASK him to restrain himself from unsolicited PERSONAL advise in the future.
Do not reciprocate in judging his actions and if He does not get the subtle point then move on.

the only control one has in life is control over ones own action and reactions


my opinion
PEACE

Answer 6

Some of the ways I handle people like that..
Smiling and changing the topic or excusing myself to go to the washroom (and walk away).
"Killing them with kindness" comes to mind for me.

It also depends on who it is and how well I know them... I'll make comments like..."it must be wonderful to be perfect." or "I wish I was as perfect as you"... stuff like that.

It's so mentally toxic to be around people like that...

For me, I'm okay with being perceived as a bit of an 'airhead' by joking around or changing the subject just like that with some people like that... that way they may not give me so much of their attention later.

It depends on your environment and what you are comfortable with.

Lastly, I just "consider the source" and laugh it off inside.
Does that make ME judgemental??
Yup, I am... but I try to keep as much of it to myself as I can.

I try not to get upset, bottom line.

Good luck to you.

P.S. Just remembered how one of my outrageous buddies deals with all people he doesn't like or doesn't appreciate... he farts on them! Crazy! (Sure glad I don't bug him!)

Answer 7

Tell him you're fluent in IDIOT but it's always nice to listen to a native speaker of the language.
And tell him his village rang... they're missing him.

Answer 8

Tell the know it all to keep hia opinions to his self.

Answer 9

it all depends who this person is n how he/she plays an impt part in yr life...if its yr boss, then agree with him and keep quiet even if he is wrong..dun let his/her arrogance affect yr work/promotion...

if this person is yr in-law, to giv yr spouse face, let him/her blabber his/her way out...keep quiet, smile, listen and agree deafly...meaning listen fm one ear, exit fm e other....

this will make yr life easier and happier...no pt upsetting yr life and yr happiness over these ppl....one fine day they will get it fm others...but make sure its not u :)

Answer 10

There is a lot of them---smile at them- and walk away as
fast as you can go.