Me and my boyfriend broke up a week ago after a two year relationship. He said he didn't feel like we as close and that it seemed to have ended naturaly.He has alot of things going on like university (so maybe he was just stressed out?) I am totally gutted and really miss him. He says he wants to still be friends and kept mentioning how he didn't want to say he wanted a break because he thinks i wouldn't take him back. he also couldn't say he loved me anymore. We'll both be at the same party tonight and he said he'd talk to me but I'm not sure if he means as friends or... something else. We're going on holiday with friends soon aswell. do you think he can realise he has made a mistake and realise he misses me and still love me? and ask for me back?
any opinions would be great. Thanks.
2007-03-17 05:39:26 · 8 answers · asked by kaykay 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no one else. and my mates keep saying other girls don't look at him that way.
2007-03-17 05:48:26 · update #1
This is bad i know this one ive done this myself when he stops saying i love you he is pulling away there only so many ways it can go two years the new has worn off and he thinks its better to go by himself to what ever he has to do be there for em and dont do anything that would make both of yall want to do other thing its not the answer just makes thing worse later on if hes hardheaded hes not coming back till things are simple again
2007-03-17 06:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Matt D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby. Sweetheart. My heart breaks for you. I am really sorry to have to tell you, but he's not that into you anymore.
Guys generally don't break up 'well' and do it poorly with lots of loose ends which you have tons of. You'll just have to accept the reality, not fun, not easy I know.
I would consider right now not going to the same party. This is all too new and fresh for you and very confusing, venerable time emotionally. Go out with a girlfriend tonight get a couple of movies and eat some pizza and b**ch together.
Hugs.
2007-03-17 12:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle_My_Belle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you a question...do you think that the guy "completes you"? Do you deep down inside think that if he leaves, you will not survive?
This is so not true! First of all you need to love YOURSELF. Believe me if you do, people around you will as well. You should make your man feel you are already complete even if without him, otherwise you only seem insecure to him and that scares him away. Healthy men want a woman who will make them feel better than they feel when they're single. If they don't have that feeling they'd rather be alone.
2007-03-17 12:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by miracle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with friends and make more friends! by the time you wake up he might want you back! it happens the same with but with me it was worse (he stop talking with me) and he ask me back...we are for 2 months together now! give him time to think about what he really wants! good luck
2007-03-17 12:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by sara g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how hard this situation is, everyone meets this in their life at one point...but try to put urself on the outside of the situation...hes just not that in to you nemore...n u shouldnt be into him nemore...hes a dick...u deserve better...just let it goooo baby..ull find sum1 better....dont talk to him..avoid him and stay away from him...he doesnt deserve you, ur worth more then this guy......
try reading greg behrenharts book hes just not that into you
its honestly helpful, it sounds silly but try it
good luckkkkkkkkkk
2007-03-17 12:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a clue. He's bang'in some one else sweetie.
2007-03-17 12:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by todd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make yourself hard to get is another option. Just be very expensive and sexy
2007-03-18 15:08:44 · answer #7 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt with other guys.
2007-03-17 12:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Di Snow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋