PLease tell me how do I go on ever since losing my bestfriend i am so depressed?

Question

move on when she died you dont know what its like.

Answer 1

I know what it is like and it just takes time. Get it out. Talk about how you feel with friends and family. It took me 4 or 5 years to begin to feel normal again. I still think of my girlfriend everyday. That will never change. Do not repress your grief or emotion.

Answer 2

People come and go in life. It is bitter, but true! Maybe u r thinking that I'm no help but let me tell u, knowing and facing the truth helps a lot!

Now, there is an empty space which ur friend has left but the world doesn't end here honey!

A personel advice is to make urself ur best friend. Trust urself, care urself, luv ur guds and hate ur bads! Trust urself, coz you can't decieve urself! It'll help u 2 ponder over urself b4 others point it out. Ur personality will improve and u'll feel more independent.

Ur freind is now gone and there is no use to cry over spilt milk, so don't get all depressed over her and start a new life. Make other friends! God Bless u! Gud Luck!

Answer 3

Accept it that when a loved one dies, the person you were with them has also died So its really a part of you that has died. I lost my bestfriend a year ago. It hasnt got any better. I dont miss her any less. I still pick up the phone to wanting to talk to her. When something so big happens, you expect everything to come to a standstill, but doesnt. I still smile and laugh and go to the movies and go through the motions of living. I think the lesson to learn is that love and live like you were going to die tomorrow..

Answer 4

I lost my friend last year and its hard the most stupid things remind me of her. I will never ever forget her but unfortunately life goes on and you have to as well. do things that they would be proud of. I'm sure they wouldn't be happy seeing you depressed even though its so easy to say i feel the same sometimes. I have to think of the good memories i have and be great full for all those good times we had. i know im not much help to you but keep smiling you will get through it i am slowly getting there. Talking to people about them and a good cry every now and then helps a little to.

Answer 5

Try to move on. Theres other people that can be the same as her. Or better. Or if you are really sad and want her back write her a note apologizing for whatever made you all stop being friends. I lost my best friend not to long ago and i wrote her a note and we are besties again! 8]

Answer 6

Hi Grief is a very powerful emotion,but a necessary one. You loved your friend and it will take time to accept the void.
I suggest you join a support group in your area, and speak to a councilor. Hang in there, it will get better!!

Answer 7

Only time will do it. You can distract yourself with hobbies, other friends, reading, etc... But it's simply time. You are going through a mourning process. Let it run it's course.

Answer 8

move on.