Ok, assuming you are new to the town - you just moved in for your new job. Your old friends live very far away from you & you are not able to find any new friends or women for dates in town in the first few months (even the people you work with are all much older than you and have families to support).
I just wanna know if in this case, you went to the big bar or club in town - but you went there ALONE - in this case would the other people (who come in groups of friends) look at you as a "dork" or something?
Just curious.
2007-03-17 04:49:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You ought to be able to go alone. Just wear a smile and don't look fidgety and scared.
Better yet, join a civic club, athletic club, or church to meet people. The relationships made there will be much more real than those made under the influence of alcohol. Plus, clubs attract folks from all over a city; a health club or Kiwanis club will draw from near where you live, and you'll have a better chance of connecting w/ people you can see on a regular basis.
2007-03-17 04:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are not a 'dork' - it's common for people to congregate in bars. I would select a nice bar in a good neighborhood, go there between 7 and 8 and stay for three hours, make a drink last up to an hour so that you don't get drunk, and play it by ear after you get there.
If nothing comes from your first night go there another two nights in a row - then wait to the following week and return to the same place the same time and stay the same hours.
If you do that a third week and no friendships occur, select a different bar and do the same thing.
2007-03-17 05:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by ha_mer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, you just start a converstation with the bartender and explain why you are there by yourself. Eventually, other people will join in the converstation and after you go there a few times, the people will remember you and then just consider you part of their "bar group". Should only take 2 or 3 times.
2007-03-17 05:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally people tend to be wary of someone who is solo. You most likely won't have much luck making friends or meeting women, since they'll be suspicious of you for going alone. You should try looking online for activity groups you can join so that you can be in a situation to more easily make friends and meet people.
2007-03-17 04:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way its hott to meet ppl at bars especially becausee I go alone all the time and end up meeting ppl!! I met thes two girls at a bar I don't even kno if the were lesbian(im not) but I was really wasted so we asked for whipped cream from the bar tender and I began to pull up my shirt and they put whipped cream all over my stomach and then my pants, then my whole sthirt was off and they began to lick it all off and I saw this really hot guy watching and now that hot guy is my boyfriend
2007-03-17 05:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about being alone and judged for it. Most people could care less. Just go out, look as best you can, and get sociable with the others there whenever it feels right. You just have to "break the ice" and drop the shyness.
2007-03-17 04:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 01:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably better places to meet people, shopping plazas, bowling leagues, even churches although you may not like the people you meet there.
2007-03-17 04:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not, unless of course you are one. People go to clubs to meet new people, so they don't where you came from, or any body else for that matter
2007-03-17 04:53:45 · answer #9 · answered by Simon M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋