She is in me gym class but the only time I get to be alone with her is on the late bus. She is very popular. Alot of people know her. I don't know her name and she does not know my name. She sometimes say whats up to me when I am near her. She does not know me that well. I just wan't to be her friend. No dating. On the late bus should I start by saying hie and asking her her name or what? Please help. This is what I had in mind. First when I get on the bus I sit on the opposite side of her and say hie, then I ask her her name then I ask her if she is Arabian because she looks like she is from a country in Asia like I am, then I ask her what class did she stay after for. I am asking her that because we are on a LATE bus. Then I ask her about the time when she and her friends were loughing at me when I was reading out loud to myself. Then I ask her what street she gets dropped off on even if I already know wich is three streets away from me, then I say what ever comes next. Is that good?
2007-03-17 04:25:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually I forgot to say about the loughing at me because I was reading out loud part I was going to ask her about it in a glad happy way or waht should I do? Please help.
2007-03-17 04:35:11 · update #1
About the loughing part I will ask her like this in a glad, kind of smiling way. Let me ask you a question and be honest. Remember the time in pictures day when you and your friend were laughing at me. What was so funney?
2007-03-17 04:56:24 · update #2
Heres what you can do
She sits across from you
you say hey what class did u stay after for
she tells you
you say oh whats your name again?
and things schould kick off from there your approach was to fast and she woudl ahve thought you were wierd which reading out loud to yuor slef in public maybe you are
if u need anymoe advice my email is little_girl_babez_hotchick_lol@yahoo.com
good luck
danie
2007-03-17 04:35:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~~Dani~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start off simple. Just keep saying hi, and smile sometimes when you see her.... but be COOL about it... nothing too obvious at this point.
Now, on the bus it would be good to sit opposite but don't ask her her name yet. Just ask her, what class she is staying for.. then you tell her yours. That might start into a conversation just by what you say. You may know someone in the class she is talking about.
Keep the conversation very light and do not ask her about her ethnicity yet. And DON"T ask her about the laughing. Let her see what a nice guy you are. The important thing is to be cool about it. DON"T talk to her every time you see her, just occasionally. And don't come on too strong. That way you don't freak her out and she thinks...oh, no, this guys likes me and then she will try to avoid you. Be patient and eventually, you will start talking more and become friends if she sees that you are not trying to be more. If you have a good sense of humor then use that when you talk to her. Girls love a guy that can make them laugh.
2007-03-17 11:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think you should do is first just say hi and introduce yourself. Don't be too forward or pushy or you might freak her out. It'll also look like you have a crush on her or something and obviously you just want to be friends. DO NOT say anything about the whole laughing at you for reading out loud thing. It would be a total turn off for your guys' first actual convo to be about them making fun of you. IT'll all fall into place if it's supposed, just be patient.
2007-03-17 11:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Do You Feel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be confident, ask her if she wanted to meet you and your friends at Starbucks or something, not as a date, just as one of those guy-girl friend go-out things. so many people do that, so you could try that. Don't let it be weird when you ask, because then she'll think that you like her. if you want her to be your friend, try doing nice things for her, cover for her when she doesn't have enough money at school or somehting. Don't treat her like a guy when you're with your friends, but treat her like she's something special. Just remember to be yourself, you'll do fine!
2007-03-17 11:55:06 · answer #4 · answered by funbirdnerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude! is this the best you could do?!? wht's up with you kiddo!!
just be yourself that's all, you just want to be her friend, it's not a big deal...show her that you are cool too, and dnt keep on asking her silly questions, you will make her bored!
open one interesting subject for both of you and start a conversation.
Good Luck!!
2007-03-17 11:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have planned everything well its perfect like that all that you said you should tell her the same thing,but friendship can turn out to be love.maybe you already love her and you are dennying cause why did you have to insist that you want only to be her friend ,good luck...
2007-03-17 11:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be causal. Say, "Hi, I'm ______" Whats your name. Start it off by just being simple.
2007-03-17 11:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by Amelia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god you little 13-year old loser just talk to her and dont be a drama queen
2007-03-17 11:29:12 · answer #8 · answered by Breaker's Lax Rules!!! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋