When in a long relationship does the spark wear off and disappear or does it always stay electric when you touch?
Do you always have a strong spark e.g where you want to tear each others closes off all the time?No silly answers please.serious question!
2007-03-17 04:24:45 · 14 answers · asked by biggy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean in a long relationship e.g 8 years
2007-03-17 06:37:22 · update #1
if there is true love the sparks will still be there just not as heavy as it was at first...you have to keep creating sparks to keep it going...be exciting
2007-03-17 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Knome Lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well depends how long you talking about I've been with my boyfriend over a year now and i still want to be with him 24/7 and i use be a person that did not want to settle down. in the beginning of a relationship it is normally more exciting than when you in a relationship for many years but that does not mean the spark is not there is just that you know him or her will always be there so you don't try so hard and the only time you try hard is when you have a fight. you some time get those moments when you want to tear each others clothes off but it does happen as often as it does in the beginning of a relationship.
2007-03-17 04:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by karm 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The spark comes and goes. Life happens, things change but to keep the spark you have to work at it. Sometimes you feel like giving up, but then it comes back. Just keep in mind that it takes two to make a relationship and both have to contribute to it.
2007-03-17 04:32:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different, because every person is different. The best relationships develop slowly. If the spark is full on from the start, it will fade more quickly, if you get to like the person more and more each day, the spark will last longer.
2007-03-17 05:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by davethursfield 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for ten years and I can honestly say that in my experience there are peaks and troughs in your sex life and libido. Sometimes you are both just so tired and busy especially if you have kids, that your love life can suffer but then other times it is wonderful and you can't get enough of each other.
There are different types of contact so some days my husband will come up behind me when I'm doing the dishes or something and give me a hug and it is just a loving comforting hug. Other days he can do the same thing but because of the way he touches me I can tell what is on his mind and it's still only a hug! That's when I get tingling down my spine!
2007-03-17 04:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by wattie 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah it really depends, actually. For me, the spark is always there, but I do not know for my significant other though. It doesn't matter if the ***spark*** isn't too bright , since the sky also isn't clear ALL the time. Plus, since we are humans, there are times our batteries get low and sometimes fully recharged. Only LOVE matters, and oh, perseverance too. Good luck, aye.
2007-03-17 04:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by joulsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex wife for 12 years, relationship time and marriage combined. Every time we were intimate was awsome! Best that either one of us ever had. Only kept getting better! Thats pretty much all we had going in our relationship though and are now divorced. Something to think about.
2007-03-17 04:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by teenypurplebinky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak from experience, but my relationship with my wife has just kept getting better and better in the 18 months since we married.
2007-03-17 04:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by beernutuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the sparks does not stay for long. it real depen on you as a person if you want it to work
2007-03-17 04:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by cold_ice23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that in most cases it is the old saying that familiarity breeds contempt.for some lucky ones though it lasts a lifetime though lacking some of the early intensity
2007-03-17 04:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋