others around me started to make me feel uncomfortable about dating her eventhough she is very socialibly mature for her age....I just began to think the age diff wouldn't work. them my ex of 2'x really wanted to try again...maybe I was lonesome idk but i went bk to her and things are fine..not great but ok...I'm just trying to figure myself out cuz i still think about the girl I broke up with and find myself im'ing her and asking her how her life is...whats she's doing now...looking for her in places when she should be there....do you think i'm cheating on my new gf by contacting my ex? or do you think I'm really confussed about the break-up ...what do you think is going on with me....help I'm blind.....please give me your look on things for me...much thanks. ( In case you wondering..im 20.)
2007-03-17 04:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by sporty_kitten 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not to be rude or anything but your dumb the thing is who was dating the girl you or your family...you right so what should it have matter that your family didnt approve my boyfriend is 19 and im 17 ill be 18 in june but hell be 20 in september so that would really suck if he would just break up with me for that when we first started dating i think his mom did have a problome with the age diffrence cause i was 15 and he was 16 going on 17 and she tought i was to young for him but we just ignored everything so i think that you never ment to break up with her and now that your with this girl again your stating to realize what you did and you feel dumb and confused
2007-03-17 04:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just confused. Its not cheating unless you tell the other girl you are "with" her too, or you do thing with her. Its not that much of an age difference, and it shouldn't bother you that she is under 3 years younger. As for the girl you are with now, if you don't love her, then don't make her think you do. Its all a matter of what you feel. You are 20 years old and perfectly capable of making your own choices without your family's approval, or disapproval in this case. Follow your heart, not your family's ideas of what you should do and be.
2007-03-17 04:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the age difference thing is a big factor in most peoples like yours i think you are a perosn that wants to please everyone but im sorry hun thats not possible and i think you still have feelings for the 17 year old and cheatin on your girlfriend is not fair to her or you cuz clearly you wouldnt be cheatin if u didnt have some feelings but dont play the 17 year old because she doesnt deserve that and dont expect her to wait because she wont
good luck,
danie
2007-03-17 04:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Dani~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i meet young...... we have a 4 year age difference we've been married for 17 years now. your age difference isn't that big of a deal but i would suggest that you wait till she is 18 before rekindling the romance
2007-03-17 04:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by NAYNAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋