hmm.
me and my ex boyfriend broke up at the end of summer last year cuz he was going to military school in pennsylvania. he's calling me almost every night now and talking for like an hour.
i miss him a LOT.
but it seems like he gives me mixed messages.
cuz sometimes he acts like he likes me, and sometimes it acts like he doesn't even want to talk to me.
he is visiting in about two weeks... he told me he would hang out with me.
what should we do when we hang out?
its gonna be really awkward... but i miss him so much.
should i go on extra diet and exercise and go tanning so i look good?
what would the best thing for me to do to make him be like "damn! i miss her... i want her back in my life..."
i miss him so much.
i just want him to want me back.
and idk what i should do to achieve that...
2007-03-17 04:18:16 · 9 answers · asked by scoot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off pay attention to when he's sweet and when he's distant. More than likely, when he calls you he's cool, but when you call him is when he's distant. This is because human nature always wants what they can't have. Same goes for us...we do it too. Now as for...how do you make him fall. I'm gonna give you the best possible advice that you ever will here when it comes to getting the boy, so listen carefully. Stop calling him. When he calls...don't answer his calls when you know he's not gonna be there, call him back and leave a message. Now . Return don't completely act uninterested, but I would limit yourself to 'letting' him get ahold of you maybe 2-3 times a week. and never get all mushy. Don't be a goofy girl. Act like his friend, one of the boys, Talk to him like you would talk to your brother. Never...never...never.push the 'where are we going?, do you even want a relationship?, not a peep about the future. Find out what he is into and learn enough to talk with interest and really pay attention. Last but not least. be the cool chick that doesn't trip or whine "but I thought you wanted to spend time with me" and when he is there...atleast one night , go out without him. and always, I mean alway, look your best.
2007-03-17 04:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Charissa L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Angel",
I'm seeing this situation this way, your "Ex" is giving out mixed messages because, yes, things are awkward since he left to Military School and he doesn't know where you both "stand!"
What you should do is, when he does visit, all you have to do is BE YOURSELF, relax around him and let your natural feelings show through! You don't need to dress up fancy or anything like that!
You would be trying too hard if you make yourself be something your not! He's going to notice how much you do care when you are relaxed around him, ok?
If he misses you also, he is accepting you the way you are, so it's not necessary to "beef" yourself up! I mean, there's nothing wrong with wanting to look good, but you dont have to "go out on a limb" to do this!
My advice, just BE AS YOU ARE! and, enjoy your "reunion" and take things slow.
2007-03-17 11:32:23 · answer #2 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing that you shouldnt do is trow your self at him cause what he is going to think is tha he gots you and he can just get you back..dont go on an extra diet or anything becasue probably to him you never needed one...you should just make sure that you look really nice..hot sexy and everything else to make him see what he let go another thing dont go nowere quiet and romantic that ill make you wnat to kiss him or anything becasue then if at the end he just goes back and nothing happens your going to be really sad and dissapointed because your going to think that that was a sign that he was giving you when in reality it ment nothing to him so just act cool and be yourself when you see him
2007-03-17 11:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by *LaTiNa_BoNiTa* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a good listener. you can tell the direction he wants and the true intention by the way he talks to you. maybe all he wants is sum'n sum'n. looking good is a great presentation. showing half interested would make him want you more. good luck baby girl.
2007-03-17 11:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you shouldn't go to a diet.
I recommend you to calm down and be yourselve,the one that he likes. You guys could to his favorite place, like the mall ot somewhere like that.
But just be yourselve...
2007-03-17 11:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dam. Your putting too much faith in a military man. I was married to a few. They be rotten! LOL
2007-03-17 11:23:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him, Do you stll like me, like you did before you left???if he says yea then you tell him how you feel about the way he feels about you!! If you dont understand how to read this dont worry about this answer!!!
lol
2007-03-17 11:22:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look...just be yourself and if he does not like you then he will never like you and there will be other guys out there that will like you for who yo are not what you do .
2007-03-17 11:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by jtriban 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont my hime be like damb cuz then he will know that you are trying to empress and he knows he can play with your head like it seems he is doing now !~
2007-03-17 11:23:37 · answer #9 · answered by Glen 111111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋