ok so my bestfriend just got wiht my ex and they are denying the whole thing so i dont find out, it hurts me when i found this out because i still lvoe him but im trying to move on and i cant. i dont know what to do about my best friend either . i have been trying to ignor her but shes gunna ask why im doing that sooner or later and idk what to tell her because me and my ex arent going out ne more ; but heres there ting . my ex told me that he will always love me no matter what and he would never do ne thing wiht another girl but idk to believ it or not . a part of me wants to but the other part of me is 100% sure he is obsessed wiht ths girl..
2007-03-17 04:12:12 · 10 answers · asked by help me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BEST ADVICE: Ditch them both and move on!
2007-03-17 04:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Merry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hun, what he told you is hilarious. You can't possibly believe that until he checks into a monastery & take vows of celibacy.
Now, that aside, I would be pissed too if my best friend went out with my ex especially when they both know you still have feelings. Best advice given has already been given. Leave them both behind and move on. Considering what happened, you have every right to feel betrayed by your best friend. Best friend? NOT. She would have stayed away from you boyfriend whom you JUST broke up with if she really was your best friend.
One more thing, you JUST broke up with him and he's already with your best friend. Don't get stuck on him anymore. He ain't worth it. Good luck.
2007-03-17 04:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the both of them, he has changed his mind about and your ex girlfiend is no friend, they are not worth thinking about especially the girl. It's obvious they are attached to each other, the only thing for you is to move on as far as you can.
2007-03-17 04:24:14 · answer #3 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be glad! now you know they are both scum. this would actually help me get over someone. what is the matter with you? why are you feeling guilty? you've done nothing wrong. be proud. go get you a boyfriend and a new best friend. kick her to the curb, quick! i could go on and on. you need a little pumping up. you are weak right now and are not thinking straight obviously.
2007-03-17 04:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by REALLY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is one thing I have ever learned in this world it's "Ladies keep your best friend and friends way from your boyfriends and husbands."
I never take my friends around my men.
2007-03-17 04:17:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just move on if you keep on going the way you are all you will get is more pain
2007-03-17 04:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by stevenbarnes2560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK MAYBE YOU SHOULD SIT DOWN. THE THREE OF YOU AND TALK ABOUT THIS. EXPLAIN THAT YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM AND EVERYTHING. MAYBE HE FEELS THE SAME
2007-03-17 04:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by so0_confuzed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-03-17 04:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are both jerks and not worth your time
2007-03-17 04:15:18 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
we have a similar problem.. i also ask that kind of question in here...... i also don't know what to do..............................
2007-03-17 04:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by JP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋