see, im jelous of this popular girl in school. but im afraid i....like her. like i dont but i try to no everything about her. do u think im just over jelous and i shud get over it?
2007-03-17 03:59:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's normal when you feel jealous from someone, actually it's the basic nature of all girls honey!
so when you want to know everything abt her, means that you like to be like her...well i think you are better than her in many ways...but you need to discover the bright sides in you that's all, then you will feel so much energy!!
2007-03-17 04:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be a little jealous of her and that's why to want to know about her, so you can figure out why she is so popular. This is very normal and maybe by finding out about her you may become friends or you may find she is not the person everyone makes her out to be. Just know this is normal in school and how you handle it will to you a lot about yourself. Remember jealousy is human nature don't let it control you or your actions. Hope this helps
2007-03-17 11:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by tarows_sorrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here, but I'm ot bi or a lezbo or anything. Its cuz my ex likes her, and I still like my ex. I would say, just try to be friends with her.
This popular girl in my english class that my ex likes is really pretty and I wish I had her sense of style. I know she is prettier than me, and it just kills me to see him trying to chase after her, and talk to her. I always try starting up a convo with her and be friendly, but she just walks away like I'm not "cool enough" to even be breathing her air!
Its ok to be jelous. Just make sure nobody gets hurt. (:
2007-03-17 11:04:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying to know everything about her because you want to be like her? That's probably where this is leading. It sounds to me like you admire her and you are jealous of her popularity. A kind of ,"I wish I was her thing". So, GET OVER IT. Improve yourself.
2007-03-17 11:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Don't be jealous with her, but try to get more of her, be patient and keep in a look on her, Tr y to accept her good things and overcome of her worst things, this will make you better than her, And you can say " I am What I am", and yes make your life open to all, don't make urself a mystery, because if there are good things in you then you are definately hiding them yourself, try to express your good things to all the humans.
m 16 and enjoying my life with these simple tips.
that's all.
All the Best !!
2007-03-17 11:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by Atin Gupta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not trien 2 show off but im kinda the popular girl and if u ask her 2 a sleepover she will probaly come they take everychance they get 2 go 2 a sleepover just listen 2 the first comment....GOD BLESS YOU
2007-03-17 11:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by haley elizabeth yo ;) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you popular? if you are not in the in crowd you have about a 1% chance to become friends with this person .and yes you are looking at this a Little to deep Arther wards you are jealous
2007-03-17 11:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some counseling help. I don't think you like her I think you just are jealous and you want to know everything about her so you can out do her in it. that is the way it is with me.
2007-03-17 11:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by horsesareforever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
skool is not about popularity!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!im jealous of plenty of popular girls at my jr. high (KJHS) all u could do is find a new group of girls 2 hang out w/, okay here is an example, yesterday was poms try-outs and one of my good friends made it ,i didnt try out but she REALLLLLLLY popular w/out poms and now that shes on poms she is going to be REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY popular and nvr want 2 hang out w/ me, shell ditch me!!now that she is on poms. me and my bf went ice-skating last night and she came in the sitting area SCREAMING.............I MADE, I MADE IT, im happy 4 her but im super jealous of her, i just have 2 learn to get over it and get used to it,so im in ur situation 2 but i learned 2 get over it and u should 2. dont let some popular girl stand in ur way when really she's just another brick in the wall!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-17 11:18:48 · answer #9 · answered by cheerleader_megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seems to me like you need to get the attention redirected to you instead of her. I know this is wierd but taking her boy friend usually does enough, and any activities she's in you need to push to be better in the same
2007-03-17 11:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by 1chance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋