have to work my butt off to get her to orgasm. She is not a large girl 5'6'' 115 but it seems like she has a very large v@g!n@ . I'm not small either, about 7.5 by 5.75. She tells me i'm the biggest she's ever been with but I have a feeling she is definitely not being 100% honest with me. Could she really just have a larger v@g!n@ than most women or is she just loose and worn out?
2007-03-17 03:55:38 · 6 answers · asked by andytime80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I get her to orgasm I just have to work it really good and it wears me out, i've never had to work like this before
2007-03-17 03:56:12 · update #1
Yes it is possible for her to be 'wider' in that area. It does not mean that she is loose (in the negative form of the word). Some women have less muscle control there, therefore those muscle never get back in shape after being opened up. I know of a close friend of mine that never felt any discomfort her first time every having sex, and most women tear. I know women who were tight as could be even after natural child birth. My advice is to help her orgasm before intercourse. If you gently kiss the right area for a few minutes, then insert your fingers while still kissing dont motion your fingers in and out but simply pulling forward as if saying '***' here. Once she orgasms, her muscles will natural contract (in pulses) that is also the tightest her ...will ever be so thats when you , let her finish first, but then quickly enter your ...anyways. If that doesn't help. fill her other opening with maybe a small vibrator wich will force more pressure where you need it.. good luck!
2007-03-17 04:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Charissa L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she has ever masturbated herself to orgasm,if she has ask her where her most sensitive spot is,then take alot of time for fore play & make sure she is stimulated,woman have most of their climaxes from there clotoris not from the vagina,use oral sex on the clotoris,once you know you have acheived a climax for her then you can enter her & go for your own,size shouldn't be an issue for either of you,it's not about the size,it's about the technic,the foreplay & the closeness you share,if she has gotten herself off then you too can do the same for her. Relax,it's not a contest. But it's good to know you care about pleasing her,most men could care less about the female & think only of themselves.
2007-03-17 12:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by fairy53042000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a lot of foreplay and have her orgasm 2 or 3 times before entering she will love it.
2007-03-17 11:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by dasalsman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Er............. women are just like men hon. Some are bigger than others, it's just the way it is. It doesn't mean that she's loose, so stop being a jerk.
2007-03-17 11:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jenni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's faking it
tell her to fake it earlier because you don't want to do too much work, when you're ready to bust, just tell her you're about to come, and she should fake it asap
2007-03-17 11:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by mikedrazenhero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TMI.
2007-03-17 10:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋