I'm old fashioned so i really really rather that the guy asks me out, he is shy so how can i make it completely clear to him that I want him to ask me out, and I would definatly say yes?
2007-03-17 03:50:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But i did invite him to a dance, he came with me and we both had a great time....
2007-03-17 03:58:56 · update #1
Some times old fashioned gals don't get asked out. You do the asking.
2007-03-17 03:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There is really no way to lure someone into asking you out. He may be wanting you to ask him. In that case the two of you may be wasting time that you could be spending together. Also, you can never be sure that the signs that you are sending are being viewed the way that you intended them to be. That's why people ask girls/guys out when they have feelings for them. They want to take the guess work out of the equation. Asking people out isn't really a girl of guy thing. It's what people who want to get what they want do.
If you are really opposed to taking action into your own hands then I would say that the only thing that you can do is try to hand around him more. Say hi to him when you see him. Stop and have a conversation when you can. Sit next to him. Be friendly. Those are the things that people do when they want to get closer to someone. The only difference is that instead of asking him out at the end you will just continue doing it in hopes that he will ask you out. Seems like such a waste of time to me but it's your life.
2007-03-17 03:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Good to be "old fashioned" Each time you see him, say Hi, each time it will get easier, then you could add a little something to the "HI, like , how are you?, this will give him an excuse to respond to you and eventually he may get over his shyness, relax there's no hurry, let him take his time too. If it's right , it will happen.
2007-03-17 03:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once I liked this guy but he seemed shy. We'd talk and I'd see him trying to see me, but he seemed too shy to ask me out. We had both talked about liking hockey, so one day I got some hockey tickets. I told the guy they were my cousin's hockey tickets but that he and his girlfriend got invited to a party and couldn't go to the hockey game so he gave the tickets to me. So I kind of presented it as "I have an extra hockey ticket, if you'd like to join me." He did join me, it was our first date, and now he's my husband! Sometimes you just have to take the first step yourself, you can do it subtle like I did so it's not like you are boldly asking him out. You can do it with tickets to something, or a meal, say you got a gift certificate to a restaurant or to the movies. Good Luck.
2007-03-17 03:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by nimo22 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look for an opportunity to sit directly across from him in a short skirt with no panties. Make sure he is the only one looking, and quickly part your legs and flash him. You may also choose to wink at him simultaneously. This will intrigue him and help him overcome his shyness and ask you out!
2007-03-17 03:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by zoldosh 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you would like to spend more time with him. Invite him over to your house to watch a video.
2007-03-17 04:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by teacher sub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "you know if you were to ask me out, I just might go out with you" leave it at that and see what happens.If he doesnt ask you out then he isnt romantically intrested in you, and you havent really asked him out.Remember, no matter how good loooking a guy is, he STILL cannot read your mind.
2007-03-17 03:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You either wait for him to ask you out then or you sit at home and wait and wait and wait. You might be waiting for a long time. Enjoy waiting.
2007-03-17 03:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep staring at him and look into his eyes all the time. Smile at him at the same time, smile and stare. If that doesn't ring a bell at him, I wouldn't know.
2007-03-17 03:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Hanya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, "we should hang out sometime" thats not asking, and its implying he find something for the both of you to do, and ask you.
2007-03-17 03:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋