i met the mother of my children when i was 12 years old. we have two children in vommon an se has let me go. i continue to hold, but as i hold on i know she talks other men, and she calls me pathetic because im soo hurt i keep calling her.. it s not that i dont want to let go... i just dont know how
2007-03-17 03:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Been there recently. But I had to leave because I could not tolerate he cheating and belittling. I drank every night to kill the pain and pass out that way the dreams and thoughts were gone.
Then I got some great advice. Everyone says move on... but how. Get into some civic activities like a few hours a week volunteering at a home for the elderly or handicapped. Do something for others that takes some concentration. The thank yous and smiles will quickly replace that hole in your heart.
Get out and do something, don't dwell on her. Time heals all wounds. Being mentally busy helps them heal faster.
2007-03-17 03:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by shovelkicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is such a young age to start being together and the statistics would probably say that if you have only been with her and no one else, you are probably wanting to experiment with others, though you probably are still very attached with your ex and you still have feelings as well. If you really want to let her go, you have to move on with your life and go out lots on the weekends and meet as many people as you can, keep busy and then you won't feel as much of an empty feeling of loss.
2007-03-17 04:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by chez006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to ask urself why are you holding on? What is it you want in the relationship and why. Be realistic about ur expectations...My guess for the reason you are holding on is that you are thinking idealistically. Start going out on friendly dates, just for conversation and fun. It is very hard to let go of someone you love but you must also know that love must be reciprocated. We must not cry over spilled milk.
2007-03-17 04:03:21 · answer #3 · answered by Myleena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun Im sorry to hear about your broken heart. I too am experincing something similiar. When someone doesnt return the same feelings it makes you think whats wrong with me? well rejection hurts and it hurts to let go. but dont worry you will get through this I think the hardest part is realizing that its over. once you realize this youll be ok. just surround yourself with good friends and people who love you they will help you through it. hope everything works out. Good luck.
2007-03-17 03:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to let go ENOUGH. If you did want to let go completely you could have done it by now. It's you that's not letting yourself. You need to realize that she has moved on. You need to move on too. Try seeing other women so that you can start thinking of other women than her. It's not wrong to still love your former-lover, but you just need to move on. She's gone, you're gone, move on.
2007-03-17 03:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop talking to her completely, dont call her.If you still see the kids then ya your gona see her, but just avoid contact with her as much you can.It will take time, but you will get over her
2007-03-17 04:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Edward. Your still in love.
But let go by accepting that you two are not one any more. The key is acceptance.
2007-03-17 03:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
think about what YOU want out of life, start taking little steps at a time to accomplish your goal.
Move on ... life is to short and love to precious to be wasted on someone what doesn't want it from you.
Good luck
:-)
2007-03-17 03:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by Dina1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stalk her! And don't let a restraining order talk you out of it!
2007-03-17 03:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by zoldosh 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if i were you i would tell her it is over,but in a nice way
2007-03-17 03:57:43 · answer #10 · answered by danaejah c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋