Theres a girl who i really like and i want to know if she likes me back. She is in my choir class (yes im in chior and a guy) and sometimes i catch her staring at me. When i look back at her she turns away quickly. Then when i say hi or compliment her she is very nice and does the same. She is somewhat of a goodie-goodie and sometimes when i say oh my God or something like that she will correct me but very nicely. When i talk to her and her friend (who i know has liked me for the past few years since iv known her) they are nice but the girl i like is a tad bit mean but in a nice/teasing way. All of a sudden her somewhat popular friend (who i might add is extremely dumb) is talking to me and sometimes stares at me. I am somewhat popular and theres this really nice guy whos not popular (they say hes sweet) and likes this girl too and she is really nice to him but probably doesnt like him but i dont know for sure.
I hope somebody can help me with advice or anything!
THANK YOU!!!
2007-03-17 03:44:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She does like you..ask her out before someone else does.
2007-03-24 02:59:37 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he has quite a choice to make . I think he likes both but the one girl treats him so much better. I think all girls like the popular boys but that doesn't ever seem to last long. He would be smart to choose the one he likes & see where it takes him.. The one who stares at him from a far will be an item to check out.& who knows . ;that match could be made in heaven.
2007-03-17 11:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by remi m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She likes you, however, unfortunately, she seems to feel superior--people do not correct one in public--often not all, anywhere...it's just, well, sorry, rude--if you go out with her, she may not stay too nice for too long. It sounds like she has problems to spread around already. Ignore the other girl altogether other than being polite, since she likes you and you're not interested. If you get together with the girl you do like--of which I'd be wary of at this point--then you can worry about setting up the other two.
2007-03-17 10:53:20 · answer #3 · answered by Iseult 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
TELL HER. FULL STOP.
People are afraid of rejection. You give your shy friend a bit of power when you let her say yea or nay. What do you have to lose? Honestly, right now, you are not with her. The worst case scenario is that she says no. You will be in the same place as you are now. If she says yes...well there ya go!
2007-03-17 10:49:20 · answer #4 · answered by marvinpaulskinner 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Normally, I like to get really detailed in my answers, explaining every little thing. However, in your case, I'm feeling pretty strong about this. From the signs you've given, I'm willing to say that she very likely is interested in you, and, probably in somewhat of a romantic, or at least crush, way. I think you're safe to approach her, maybe even ask her out, if that's possible.
2007-03-17 10:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brian Sparta 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that the girl in your choir class (by the way I think it's cool for a guy to be in choir), definitely likes you. Girls usually have no problem facing or looking in a guy's eyes. If they like you, then they won't look at you for fear of people finding out that they like you. I suggest that you ask her out.
I hope this helps!!!! =)
2007-03-17 10:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sticky situation, huh?
She kinda sounds like the nice girl thats always nice to a guy if she likes them or not.
If you are ever hanging out at lunch or something, say,"I like you a lot, and I had a great time." And walk away.
2007-03-17 10:49:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simply ask her to join you in an activity that you think you would both enjoy, and then be yourself. Do you have anything to lose? Just be honest. Then you will set the bar for her to be honest with you.
2007-03-25 07:21:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you are more popular than this girl you like, she may be shy to talk to you, and girls who tease in a fun flirty way like you, its like kindergarden you tease a boy when you like them. next time this popular girl talks to you, say, i really like your friend...that way she wil tell her friend and get that ackwardness over and then she will also get the hint you dont want her at the same time. GO FOR IT.
2007-03-17 10:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be straight forward and ask her already if she likes you. You have nothing to lose and everything else to gain.
But before you do this, keep this in mind: It's all in the presentation.
2007-03-25 04:47:31 · answer #10 · answered by DangerBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋