I want her back, what should i do???
2007-03-17 03:43:33 · 28 answers · asked by naturally323 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, speaking from experience, I told my boyfriend I needed a break, about a month ago.
He wasn't okay with it, but he, like you, was willing to me my space.
After about a day or two without him I missed him, and it just so happened that he was calling me too, and I told him I didn't want t break, I realize how much he means to me and how much I need him.
So what I suggest, give her a few days, let her miss you, realize how much she cares for you, and call her, tell her you care too much about her to want to take a break. If she loves you, she will feel the same way.
Sometimes you have to go without a person and miss them to see how much it would hurt if you lose them, I'm sure that's all she needs, I mean that's all I needed with my boyfriend.
2007-03-17 03:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by heaven_forsaken_dark_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter how much you want her, leave her alone and move on with your life. If it was meant to be a good relationship that will last then things will work out for you both, but as long as she feels the need for "space" then your hanging on to her will only eliminate any and all possibilities of this working out. You are both young and have a lot of years in front of you to find that perfect person and just give her the time to decide if the person for her is you.
2007-03-17 10:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by sassyliz32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out, apologise. Don't call her or sms her as it does not show any respect for her. Instead look her up and explain how important she is to you. You on the other hand, "put yourself into her shoes".
No one likes to be over-controlled. I know you love her but consider her feelings. She could feel like being a slave to you. Give her some space. She's human too. She needs her own time too. Listen to her. Tell her you will try to change and ask her to forgive you. Give her time to think over it and please don't be too demanding..
I wish you best of luck. But if this does not work out (which i hope it will not), accept the fact and learn from this mistake. Treasure that person you love deraly, show every single affection and care and you will find that you will be treated the same way.
2007-03-17 10:56:08 · answer #3 · answered by singaporeidol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depending on how old you guys are, she might just be telling you that so that she can break up with you without actually saying it to you. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings. That is, if she is young. If she's older, then maybe she does need space. Have you guys been fighting??? Is there another guy she is hanging around or talking to????? She might have someone else in mind. Leave her be. She's not worth your time if she can't even be up front and honest with you.
2007-03-17 10:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is leave her alone for a while. Just let her chill. Don't be all up in her buisness because then she definally won't wanna be with you if you do. She will come back up to form and be with you soon if you leave her alone. Give her her space and it will be ok. Thats what my friend did and it worked out ok so try it. I hope it works well for you! Good luck.
2007-03-17 10:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Joanne G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when someone asks for space, they are saying it's over. You can't "make" her have the same feelings as you do. So leave her alone and move on with your own life and interests. Sorry, I know this isn't what you wanted to hear. Good Luck.
2007-03-17 10:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants and is asking or space...you should give it to her. Just let her know how you feel...like tell her that you really love her and that you want her back but you're going to give he space and hopefully you can work things out. But if she's asking for space and you keep bugging her, it just might make her reject you more.
2007-03-17 10:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has made up her mind there is little you can do. In fact persuing her too much would only make it worse. The best thing to do is find things to take your mind off her. Maybe if she sees your not a desperate fool who is willing to do any stupid thing to get her back she'll take you more seriously. You really don't want someone who wants to wrap you around their little finger. It would not make for a happy relationship on your part. Best of luck
2007-03-17 10:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, something went wrong between the two of you. You just have to give her time. If she comes back then you will apprciate each other more because of the time that you spent apart. She will come back if she realizes that she has feelings for you and you will be more committed to her because you won't want to lose her again.
2007-03-17 10:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her space. I hate to tell ya bud, but 'on break' doesn't usually work in the really real world. Odds are, you've lost her. Stop bothering her. The more you push the farther she'll go.
2007-03-17 10:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by land-pliskin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋