i don't wanna hurt either girl. they both say they're so in love with me and i don't wanna hurt one or both or either. known one of em almost a year. one of em for 4-5 months now. and they both say they love me they both want me and i don't wanna hurt anybody. i'm confused. somebody help me.
2007-03-17 03:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
max, you are eventually going to have to pick between the 2 of them.and since we don't know either of them,we can't choose for you.pick the one you like the best and go with her.but make sure you let the other 1 down very easy. don't let her know that there is sum1 else(that will hurt her) just tell her that you want to start seeing other people. and keep it short and sweet. 1 of of these girls "are" going to get hurt. there is nothing you can do about it now. the damage is done!!!
2007-03-17 03:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about them. Either you have feelings for neither of them, or there is one of them that you are interested in as more than a friend. You can't just go out with a girl to make her happy, in the end neither one of you would be happy. If you like one of them, then go out with her, but have a heart-to-heart with the other one and tell her you just don't feel the way about her that she feels about you. If you don't have feelings about either one then tell them both that. It doesn't make you a bad guy, in fact you are the opposite, most guys wouldn't even worry about whether or not they were hurting someone's feelings. Good Luck.
2007-03-17 10:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One or both of them is going to have to be hurt because I'm guessing you wouldn't try to be with them at the same time since you are asking. Just choose the one that you think would make you happy and hopefully you will make her happy! Good luck!
2007-03-17 10:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kel16IU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't want to hurt anyone you shouldn't have led both of them on. You are the one that let them hang around until they fell for you. The only thing that you can do is to tell them that you like being friends. If you do want to be with one of them then let her know.
2007-03-17 10:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats tuff. well wich one do you care more about? wich one do you like spenind time with and have more in common? honestly your gonna end up hurting one of them and if you break up with both of them youll hurt them both. so just decide who does it for you more and when you do let the other person down gently. DONT just disappear like most guys do cause that hurts ALOT more than the truth. do it in person and be honest. save her from the pain by not telling her about the person involved. Good luck and I hope you learned your lesson.
2007-03-17 10:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to me your not gonna have a choice. your gonna have to leave one alone cause if not youll lose them both. just follow your heart and go for the one you have the most feelings for.and everything will fall into place. good luck
2007-03-17 10:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by grniz07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then leave them both alone.
2007-03-17 10:34:43 · answer #7 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋