I met a girl at a friends wedding about a month ago - she seemed really positive and fun and we talked a bit (mostly about her) and i notice she kept sitting next to me, coming outside when I was..etc
she crossed my mind a few times since then so I got her number from my friends new wife, and gave her a call. She was driving at the time so I told her I'd call her back in 15 but she didn't answer. i text her to say i don't understand what i said in the matter of minutes to make her ignore me and that i would take it as if she is having a bad day... she text me back apologising. she was having a bad day and that she would be free the next day should i wish to call. i called 5 days later at end of the week but no answer. she text me a few days later apologising, & she was having it hard and busy with work, but saying i should call her sometime during the day. considering the trends so far i am no fool - she will not answer.
What the hell went on?
2007-03-17 03:14:44 · 23 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's flaky - move on. Good luck! :)
2007-03-17 03:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
weddings have a way of bringing out the romantic side in us, maybe you were the best candidate for her affections. Perhaps she does have a lot going on but it sounds like she's giving you the brush off. You say it was a friend's wedding, good chance that that friend knows a thing or two about this girl so I think the person you should be posing this question to is the married couple or a known aquaintence(a friend in common of you and her)to make out her character.Good luck.
2007-03-17 03:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by little lu-lu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being too pushy. To automatically text her and ask her why she's ignoring you just because she didn't answer the phone is too much. You did that the very first time she didn't answer the phone. If someone did that to me I'd get pretty irritated. She's not obligated to answer the phone every time it rings. It's possible she doesn't always have the phone right by her side waiting for it to ring so, like most people, she probably doesn't even hear every call that she gets. I like what the one person suggested, text her and ask her to call you. If she doesn't call then you have your answer, she's not interested.
2007-03-17 03:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I had the same things happen to me with a girl. She was all over me one night, the next day cold! Never returned my calls right away, never called me first, and always had trouble keeping dates. She was seeing someone else at the same time. In other words, she really only wanted one things at the wedding!
2007-03-17 03:21:08 · answer #4 · answered by mgd6624 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text her one last time and tell her to call YOU when she is free and leave it there she might be busy and this will open up the chance of her taking control of the situation when she has a chance if you dont hear from her then you were right if you do great !!
2007-03-17 03:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by cwilsonhappylife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she really doesn't want to talk to you because if I really liked a guy and he called me, it would make my bad day turn good! But the fact that she keeps ignoring you and telling you she was having a bad day or busy just makes it sound like she's too "busy" for you! Go find yourself another girl!
2007-03-17 03:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she spent the time and money on texting you back I think you should give her the befit of the doubt. life is hectic right now and i don't always have time for people either. and she did apoligize. let it go and give her the ball tell her you know she is busy so if she would like she can call you when she has time. The ball in her court if she does geat if not oh well move on.
2007-03-17 03:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's been avoiding your calls i don't think she's serious about you. I guess she was just engaging in some casual flirting and that you got the wrong message.Girls sometimes do this. They like to lead guys on just for the heck of it. So i think you should forget about her- she's just not worth it.
2007-03-17 03:25:36 · answer #8 · answered by moonlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple case. Such a disgrace. Don't call her again. She likes it that you are chasing after her. She isn't giving you enough time at all. She's only texting you. Oh, and she probably has 2 or more guys chasing after her.
2007-03-17 03:19:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Shes jerkin' you around, noone is THAT busy, if you want you can always make time. Why don't people see that, I repeat, if you WANT you can always make time. This is just for starters, imagine what she puts guys threw? You don't need it, find someone worthy of your attention...
2007-03-17 03:22:23 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i think she really is havin a rough time... next time just text her saying what time she wants you to call that would be convinient to her...if she still hesitates go to another friends wedding and tell me how it turns out....good luck
2007-03-17 03:21:48 · answer #11 · answered by seriously tell me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋