she wants me to be with another "native". but i like white boys because they have the best hair! and i live for hair and looks. And thats what they have.
2007-03-17 03:12:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to be honset here, looking for someone based upon looks is not the best way to go a bout things.
My guess is that your mom is interested in you continuing to connect to your Native American cultural heritige. That's something that is growing more and more important to many people....Especially parents.
What I would do if I were you, is simply date whom you like for the moment, but start keeping track of personality a little more than looks. Most relationships that start among younger kids nowadays are NOT statistically likley to last - so look at them as learnign experiences.
Give some Native boys a chance - and see what the White boys think of your native heritage. If your mom and res of the family is "into" the Native Culture of whichever tribe you belong to, bring along your "snag" and see what HE thinks of the Drum, the Giveaway, the Pow-wow and the darkened ceremony house.
His looks are not going to matter a hoot if he's not willign to accept those important parts of your culture. If he cannot "get into" family now - it's not likley that he will later - when YOU have HIS family in YOUR belly. Remember that.
2007-03-19 17:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by Montana_Canyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a bit odd that your mom had an interracial relationship, yet she doesn't approve of you doing so...I would sit down and talk with her calmly. Just tell her that love is love, and there should be no race involved, and that you seem to be more attracted to white guys. Using your own parents as an example might be a good way to put it...goodluck!
2007-03-17 03:17:14 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen to your mom and native americans are your best choice all ur going to get on this answr page is wrong answers from white ppl who want u 2 b wit thier kind
plus native americans have beutiful hair what are you thinking always listen to your mother shes smart no jungle fever
2007-03-17 03:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hair and looks don't hold up all that well over time...especially the hair for many men... Just marry the one you love and adore, and your mom can just know that she can either accept him or at least be polite and just deal with it.
2007-03-17 11:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all..dont be so shallow...its inside that counts..second....dont let your mom tell you who to love...you dont need to be defiant...just live your own life..and ummm, if your partly white...but your mom doesnt approve of you dating a white boy, isnt that kind of a double standard???
2007-03-17 03:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by Darcey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because your mom had a bad experience with your biological father. Maybe thats why she doesnt approve of you dating white boys
2007-03-18 08:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha..Hey,its good that u like white guys..
Yeah,they've got the looks..
But I think,U should listen to ur mom..
Even I live for hair and looks..but mom comes first..Listen to ur mom..:)
Good luck..
2007-03-17 03:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by samantha g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't live for "hair and looks" because there are scary good looking guy out there ;) Just tell your mom it wouldn't matter who you love, as long as they are nice.
2007-03-17 03:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other answerer, my grandfathers half native american micmac to be exact.
2007-03-17 03:17:24 · answer #9 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough go with what your heart tells you.
forget what mother wants shes not the one who's going to be with that person.
2007-03-17 03:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by martina s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋