In high school I was teased by some girls because I was fat, nerdy, and had glasses. However while attending college away I lifted weights, joined boxing, and now dress with the best urban gear. I now am able to get any woman I want and when I came back home I rejected and insulted those girls who teased me in high school that now want me and they was upset and felt bad that I did that to them. Is this great revenge?
2007-03-17 03:08:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say it was great revenge, but it was certainly justifiable. They were only after you for your looks anyway. I was in the same situation at school. I finished school, went to university overseas and when I came back, it was weird. All the "cool" girls were slightly overweight (some really). All of a sudden these guys wanted me saying "I always liked you but I just didn't know how to say it back then". You did the best thing (though maybe not the insults) - rejection.
2007-03-17 03:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcasma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is called being a jerk!!!
im sorry i cant simpathy with ur "revenge actions" because u didnt like it when they teased u, so why would u be a jerk to them? did it feel good when they rejected u?? do u think that they feel good about it too? i dont think so. i think that s being a jerk. and u r being too inmature, remember, that was in high school, adn most kids only care about looks at that age. they were younger, they didnt evaluate people for their capacities, but for their look. they only wanted to maintain their social status up in high school, and probably felt embarassed by being seen with a nerd. and again THEY WERE JUST KIDS!!! kids are f*cking stupid. but YOU, u r grown up, what was the reason to make them feel bad??? in my opinion, u should go up to them and appologize, tell them that it really struck u how badly they treated u in high school, and when u saw them those memories came back, and that u r sorry for being a jerk. remember, it wasnt funny when people made fun of u. so dont be a jerk to others, even if they treated u that way.
2007-03-17 10:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things like that happen.. You know the movie "Mean Girls" I don't know why they are like that! I learned my lesson the hard way....I just didn't want to kiss him because he wasn't that cute (@14) I moved away and when I returned that guy was handsome! I knew then, to "NEVER judge a book by it's cover"
You may enjoy your revenge for a while but now you have to watch your reputation.
You just might miss out on the good one because your reputation preceeds you.
Good Luck!
Try not to stoop to the "Mean Girls" level.
2007-03-17 10:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by LucySD 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is succeeding DESPITE how others have treated you but yeah, I understand why you would respond the way you did. I'd leave off the insults (you just stoop to junior high level when you do that) but "rejecting them" is really ok. Good for you for "succeeding"!
2007-03-17 10:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all you did was prove how mean of an adult you are. Grow up, along with being an adult means that you can put childish behavior aside. From the way you described yourself. no way in hell could you have a person like me. Its the inside that counts not what you look like on the outside. Being an adult you should know this already. Apparently you are an adult but still thinking like a child.
2007-03-17 10:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one am a fan of revenge because its like they are getting what they deserve. but I think you have to let God handle his buisness. Because trust me they WILL get whats coming to them in the end. but if you already got your revenge congrats karma is coming around for that As@. Good luck. you reap what you sow its a viscous cycle.
2007-03-17 10:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not great revenge. It's petty and small. Next time you go away to college, get a character and learn to be a man.
2007-03-17 10:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Tavita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Revenge is like taking drugs, it makes you feel good for a minute, but ruins your life in the long run.
They will already feel remorse for their actions without your assistance.
2007-03-17 10:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Your humble servant 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, just like you have greatly changed...so could they. What if one of those girls turns out to be your perfect match?
Don't let the past hurt your future. Besides, without their "influence", you would not be the guy you are today.
2007-03-17 10:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
.You were hurt, you moved on. Leave it at that and try to be a little more charitable. Don't waste too much money on fashion.. Now it seems you have a chance to realy start maturing. Take it!
2007-03-17 10:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋