Am i being played, or does she actually like me?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

i asked this girl to the movies the other day, she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....whats that mean??i said yes of course...is that a hint?

Answer 1

sounds 2 me that she is n 2 u

Answer 2

She likes you all right. All of the signs are there. When she asked you if you would pay for the movies she wanted to know if this was two friends going out together or a real date. She was hoping the latter. Treat it as a real date. Talk to her, tell her how you honestly feel. If you don't want to lose her to someone else she has to know that you are interested.

Answer 3

Yes, girls play around with their hold over guys -
though usually they've gotten over it by 17.

If you like her on her own without this behavior
then go for it. Just keep it light and do what men
have been doing for the last few thousand year...
be non-committal.

If she really is just playing like a cat with a mouse,
she's waiting for you to confess undying love for
her - and then she'll go away.

If you develop a real friendship - well, the joke's
on her!

Answer 4

she asked you if you'd be paying to tell her if it was 2 friends goin out, or if it was a real date. so when you do go out, and you put your arm around her, hold her like you dont ever wanna let go, and when you talk to her, look at her as if she were the only thing your eyes ever wanna see. the fireworks will be worth all the effort

Answer 5

dont try to read anything more than the fact that she likes you and you like her --- just let the relationship grow and mature --- and what difference does it make that you are from canada??? are you soooo different there?? and by the way im from Australia and way way older than most of the people here --- the only way you will lose her is if you become a total jerk ---- she likes you for who you are

Answer 6

I don't think u should be worried at all!
She obviously likes u a lot!
Why she wants to know what her name is on your phone, is just because she is hoping it wud be honey, sweetie, babe, or something like that :)
Just go for it, she's definetly into u!
Good luck:)

Answer 7

no i don't think yer getting played maybe she does like maybe she just doesn't know how to tell you and hello going out places sounds like a date so maybe that's her way of saying i like you.

Answer 8

she likes you but sounds like she might have adhd seriously no joke, but yeah she deff. likes you.. she might also be having problems with her family or friends

Answer 9

ask her to be your girl i think that's what she is waiting on