guys....what do u find attractive in a girl???

Question

i know you guys all have different tastes but i just want some opinions. what kind of girl do you like? someone who's funny, smart, pretty, curvy, popular, nice, smooth talker..... oh and another thing, if there's a girl and she likes you and knows what kinda girls you go out with and changes herself to be like that, would you like her?

Answer 1

I like a girl who has a sense of humor and doesn't feel the need to be serious about everything all the time. Popularity carries absolutely NO weight with me. I like women to be attentive to my needs, affectionate and passionate. A curvy woman is nice with well proportioned moderation, but a slender woman is attractive as well. Intellegence is a MUST. I love a woman that I can have an in-depth conversation or debate with, and one who can be on the same level as I am, intellectually. I also love artsy women, or women who are fueled by their passions in life.

Beauty is something that I find hard to describe, it's sort of a loaded topic as different men have different tastes. I think that most men want a women they percieve to be "beautiful", and some people think this is shallow, but I do not, and I'll explain. I think it mostly has to do with how one percieves him or herself. I guess I've struggled with my own self-image, more so when I was younger. So back then, I wanted a woman who would compensate, in her appearance, for the percieved shortfalls in my own, for example, I often sought out women who where overly glamorous, or made up. I wanted the girl that all the other dudes were drooling over. I think there are a lot of young men who do the same, whether they chose to admit it or not. The young man wants to be the suave, player. He wants to know that he could "get" any woman he wants. When I was younger (in my late teens and early twenties), I was the same way. But more than that, I think I was affriad. I was affriad of rejection. I tried to bolster my own self-image by projecting confidence and surrounding myself with peers that I could "run the streets with". I did a lot better in groups. As I have gotten older (I am now 30), I feel differently. I have also been in a few long term relationships, some good, some really bad. I think my experiences have served to enlighten or broaden my perception of what it is that I really want from a woman, and what kinds of things I find to be attractive about a woman. There is no longer a need for me to bolster or inflate an image of self-confidence, I no longer need the approval of anyone, I no longer need to prove to anyone the measure of man that I am based on my words, but rather, I prove them by my actions and my lifes experiences. This has an effect on what I find attractive or desirable in a woman. At this point in my life I want to find a woman that feels the same way about herself that I feel about myself. I think that without the shell of perception that we all put around ourselves, it is easier to connect with someone, despite any flaws that person may have, or the flaws of the other. That is why I tend not to describe in too much detail what I find physically attractive about a woman, because depending on the interaction, these things may become more or less important.

Of course there are requisites of my physical attraction to a woman. Good hygene, overall cleanliness, pedicured feet, ect, and for some reason I love a woman with freckles. I tend to be more attracted to girly girls, as opposed to tom-boyish girls. And as far as the last part of your question, I would NOT like a girl that attempted to changer herself according to what she "thinks" I like. A woman should NEVER try to change herself for a man, and vice versa. Be yourself.

So anyway, this is me. The next man will be different.

Answer 2

I am sure you realize your statement tends to stereotype. We'll overlook that as I am sure you are talking about the minutia of interactions you have on a given day. The answer you seek is not the answer to your question. You want to correlate their behavior with their appearance. When in actuality the answer is the same for both unattractive girls treating attractive girls poorly AND attractive girls treating less attractive girls poorly. What someone looks like DOESN'T MEAN A DAMN THING, its what is INSIDE that counts. Hate, jealousy, cruelty and meanness doesn't CARE what is on the OUTSIDE to exist. These human failings exist just fine within ANYONE. If you are even slightly interested in changing things, LEAD BY EXAMPLE.

Answer 3

Most men base at least some of their feelings on her physical beauty (sorry, we can't help it). Men also have a favorite body part that attracts them. Me, I personally love a good booty and luscious thighs. I'm not a top man, never have been. Next would be how much they have in common when it comes to sex (yes it does matter). Most of the time guys can get a feel for how far a girls sexual desires might go, before they get into bed. are. Most men are uncomfortable with a girl who has a stronger, more experienced sex drive than he does. He needs to feel secure in himself that way. Next would be how her personality fits into his own. Is she meek, loud, honest, strong, domineering, confident? How does her personality compliment his. Is he comfortable in her presence? Last would be the girls dreams, ambitions and goals. Men love a successful girl. I know I would. So, let's see we got physical beauty, sexual compatibility, personality match and lastly, can she support and take care of herself or rather is she going somewhere in life, independent of others. I don't know, that's all I got. It's just what I have found in my own experiences. Take care.

Answer 4

I look to see where she's at in her heart. Believe you me, the heart rules the body, not the mind.! People, for the most part behave with what's in their heart.As for a girl changing herself to be more like the ' girl of my dreams', I feel is utter nonsense. I go for a woman because of who she is, not because of what she may become, or what she has! That is why I'm so in love with my Kat's, FANTASTIC YOUNG LADY!!!!!.....i.e.. My beautiful Indian princess!!!

Answer 5

Eyes, great smile, big assets, the type of girl that u can have something special with. But u should like someone for who they are and not try to change them for what u desire.

Answer 6

A girl who has a great sense of humour. About the girl in the 2nd question, I would really appeciate her if she really makes a change just for me. Not in a selfish manner but in an apreciative manner.

Answer 7

how her personality fits into his own. Is she meek, loud, honest, strong, domineering, confident? How does her personality compliment his. Is he comfortable in her presence? Last would be the girls dreams, ambitions and goals. Men love a successful girl. I know I would. So, let's see we got physical beauty, sexual compatibility, personality match and lastly, can she support and take care of herself or rather is she going somewhere in life, independent of others

Answer 8

I like a girl who has a playful personality, is curvy, and has really great legs! If she changed for me would I be inteeresed? You bet!

Answer 9

SELF-CONFIDENCE rules. If you're comfortable with yourself, it means the world to a guy(many guys). Don't feel you need to change who you are to make a guy happy. If one doesn't like you for who you are, there's four that will.

Answer 10

ALL GUYS ARE DIFFERENT LIKE YOU SAID BUT MY THING TO YOU IS WHY SHOULD YOU CHANGE HOW YOU ARE FOR A MAN IF HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE THAN THAT MAKES HIM LESS THAN A MAN