Ever since I got dumped I realised that he was not worth it, he does not deserve me in the first place. I have made no contact with him, only he made contact which some I ignored, I booked a trip to go to europe for 4 weeks, I am planning to move in with my best girlfriend and I have been started to go out and mingle with new people. I feel like I'm doing the right thing, but I can't stop thinking about my ex, he broke my heart, I tried to get some answers, he says that hes unhappy and doesn't love me anymore 2 months after he dumped me (which meant he dumped me unexpectantly and ran away with no reason) but he doesn't know why. I gave up finding the truth because I wanted to be happy again and live my life, but he's constantly in my mind and I can't get rid of it. I still love him, but I haven't done any extreme measures in getting him back like calling him or stalking him, because I know I am too good to be like that. What should I do?
2007-03-17 02:35:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal to dwell on this a bit, particularly if you don't know why. In every other way it sounds as though you're moving on with your life. All you need is time. The thoughts will get less and less until suddenly you find you're not thinking of him at all. Take heart and be strong :)
2007-03-17 02:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...its normal to feel that way. I got dumped via text by my boyfriend a month ago and I still miss him even though I know I deserve a much better guy.
You seem to be going in the right direction. Give yourself some time to grieve over this relationship. Enjoy yourself during the europe trip. Who knows? You might meet some nice guy over there. Take care!!!
2007-03-17 02:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey I'm Laura I'm on my sisters account feel like that sorta I'm only 11 tho i think you shud send him a rli long text off 1 ov ur m8z fnes so that he has to read it n dnt put ur name till the end ov th txt. just explain that you lov im n want him bak but u dnt want to be unhappy so u dnt want him to hurt you agen explain generally how u feel if he ignores you... then u myt wanna try goin round to his ouse or sumfin to tell him face to face, it will rli hurt but u gotta tell him, he is more likely to understand if its face to face too. dont let any guy make you feel worthless im sure your worth alot more than that
hope you find this usefull n wish u all the best luv laura xxxx
2007-03-17 04:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will get rid of these feelings. You are never going to get back with him, you have to move on, it's that simple. Sooner or later you will meet someone else and you can move on.
2007-03-17 02:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to chatwith me in ym? i can be your new friend
2007-03-17 02:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋