me and my ex broke up not to long ago and we both agreeded we would be friends and maybe try again later. But we are so bitter to each other we often bring up things to start fights when we are talking and it almost feel like she hates me. i dont know what to do or think!
p.s. i still have feeling for her and don't really know what to do with them
2007-03-17 02:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People are exes for a reason go your separarte ways and in time you guys might be able to be friendly again good luck
2007-03-17 02:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by nylatinanurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though we would like to hide our ill feelings towards our ex's we sometimes just cant. I don't believe there is a person on this planet that can say they get along with all their exes.
The reason why we harbor bitterness is because we were hurt and still have a wee bit of love for that person. The way to get past it is to accept that we are human. And that we will always loose at love. But only to find a better one.
Sometimes God wants us to meet a few of the wrong people before we finally meet the right one.
This is just a few of life's lessons we must endure.
2007-03-17 09:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just do what i did with my ex's. I told them that i would be friends with them and let them call me even if i had feelings for her. Make conversations brief and the time frame between days since you guys have talk weeks,and you eventually see that does feelings will go away.It took me 8 months to get the feeling out a ex that i dated 2 years.So give it time and dont think that the feelings will dissapear overnight. I wish you luck
2007-03-17 09:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by El Cangri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you broke up then break away from her for a while. Sounds like you talk to her too often and you two are still together in a relationship. Try not to contact her or go out of your way to see her. give each other time away and things will just happen. Neither of you want to be smothered and it sounds like she is being smothered by you. If you want her back then give her space.
2007-03-17 09:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that she is trying to hide her real feelings for you. By showing her 'hate' for you, she is hiding how much she still likes you. And because you guys have already broken up, she doesn't want to seemed like she misses you so much. I do it sometimes to guys that I like but feel that they don't feel the same. I might be wrong about this though. Maybe you should ask her about it.......That will answer your question for sure,
2007-03-17 09:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you are pretty much in a position where you should give an ultimatum. Either friends, a couple, or part ways. stringing someone along only gets both people hurt in the long run.
2007-03-17 09:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Thrill K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call off the friendship.
2007-03-17 09:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that she still has feelings for you but can't swallow her pride.
2007-03-17 09:19:03 · answer #8 · answered by Elyse h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesnt no how to act around you talk to her about how you feel
2007-03-17 09:18:47 · answer #9 · answered by jenkinz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋