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If your daughter, sister, brother or any member of your family decided to date or marry someone out of your race/color/nationality. Will you be ok with it or not ?
2007-03-17 02:10:28 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe in LOVE...
there's so much hurt..sadness and pain in the world...
that LOVE in it's purest form...is incredible.
LOVE knows no colour.
LOVE knows no boundaries.
2007-03-17 02:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I married a Korean woman and I am Canadian. Is it a big deal ? Depends where you are.
I have been living in Korea for the last ten years. Attitudes towards mixed marriages are changing but wasn't always accepted with open arms.
While as a Canadian there is no problem considering our country is made up of people from somewhere else , but Korea had some resentment left over from the war. Soldiers came and went and their pregnant women were left behind.
So it has taken them some time to adjust.They are wondering will the same thing happen again?
2007-03-17 02:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by flying_dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother who only dates white women and he has a intense dislike of his own kind, He has suffered from this mental illness for years. I am againt Blacks & white dating and marrying because of the histroy between the two groups. Black people still suffer from the mental effects from slavery. When the majority of Black men date & marry white women it's not based on "love" like they try to say, they simply have been taught from birth that being Caucasian gives you more opprotunity and that having white or light skinned is "acceptable" and "attractive". Some people do honestly meet and fall in love dont get me wrong. But I see & hear droves of Black men, Indian men, Latino men, & Asian men talk about how they love to date white girls because they will do ANYTHING sexually and they will take a lot of B.S. off of a man quicker than any other race. Not trying to be gunny at all, this is what I see ALL the time. BTW, I live in Michigan just in case someone comes along with the "thats not happening where I'm from" line. ITS EVERYWHERE WHERE I'M FROM!
2007-03-17 02:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like people of other races and I know a lot of people married with other people of different races. I know more than 10 couples already most probably. Just too many of them that I personally know. I like it. As long as there is love then all does not matter... I mean not in the love-crazy idea, but if things are compromised and things can be tolerated, then that would be OK. There are differences and that makes things nice....Why dont you try to sit in other cultures club and see the things that you can like maybe the food or other things and then see if then you can come to like to people too. It's like trying different kinds of teas and coffees and cakes and sandwiches and noodles, right?
2007-03-17 02:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Linn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I myself am not all white. I was married to a Hispanic man. I have 2 kids by him.
There are too many different colors in my family to worry bout race.
I actually thought young people didn't worry about it any more. Guess I was wrong.
I think color doesn't matter. It is the heart of a person.
2007-03-17 02:16:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with it, but you may have to consider the family members. There are so many things going on with a new couple and that would be added drama if the families are against it. Fortunately, for me I had a very supportive and open minded family so it wasn't a problem, but it is something to consider before making a commitment.
2007-03-17 02:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt even have an opinion on it-it is no different to if they went out with someone of the same colour. I know many of my friends are seeing people of another race, and i havent even thought that it was out of the ordinary, which it isnt!
Why would you not be ok with it?
Besides, even if i didnt like the person my family member was seeing, if they made them happy, then i would just deal with it.
2007-03-17 02:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely-I am married to someone who is not of my race, he is Haitian and I am Puerto Rican. We have a wonderful relationship and we love each other very much. That is really all that matters to us both. Our families have grown to love each of us for who we are, not out races. If anyone else in my family decided to be with someone of a different race, I would be willing to welcome him/her into the family and not discriminate that person. The love two people share is always more important and can surpase racial boundries.
2007-03-17 02:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by mixdrozes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Those against interracial dating are still in the last century. If two love each other why should they be forced out because of trival things such as race? We all bleed red no matter what race you are.
2007-03-17 02:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Trinity 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have been given no concern with it. I ought to confess, when I see interracial couples I do a splash doubletake, yet it somewhat is only using fact that's nevertheless variety of peculiar, no longer using fact I disapprove. one in each and every of my famous comedians, Russell Peters, factors out that for the time of a few hundred years, we can't have distinctive colours, we are going to all be form of beige! Sounds very nicely to me!
2016-10-01 01:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care about the color of the person, just as long as they are loyal, truthful, respectful and have a job. I am white, there is a such thing as white trash if you know what I mean. Every race has good people and not so good people.
2007-03-17 02:20:42 · answer #11 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋