i love a boy younger to me.... will his parents agree? how to convince them............... pl help?

Question

we both are of same profession, he is 3 yrs younger and still studying i just compleated.he is eldest. how n what is the best time to reveal to our parents........... pl reply

Answer 1

True love has no age bar. Take time as you both are still very young to take such a decision.
Try to "remain away" for at least one more year to find your love towards him increasing or not. If it is increasing then it is sure that your love is really true and divine.
Permission of bothside parents are very important as they have shown you the light of the day. Please never never never go against their wishes as it is nothing but crime. May see the movie " Dulhaniya Le Jayenge". It has taught how important is Parents' love and desire.
Be a nice 'Beti' (daughter), Oh my Beti. I have also two daughters 25 and 21 of age. Elder one named Mohar is recently married to her classmate with our permission. We all are happy.

Listen to the song 'Mother of mine'.

"Mother of mine, you gave to me / All of my life, to do as I please / I owe everything, I have to you / Mother, sweet mother of mine.
Mother of mine, when I was young/ You showed me the way, things have to be done / Without your love, where would I be / Mother, sweet mother of mine.
Mother, you gave me happiness / Much more than words can say / I pray the Lord that He may bless you / Every night and every day.
Mother of mine, now I have grown / And can walk straight, all of my own / I'd like to give you what you gave to me / Mother, sweet mother of mine."

So my favourite quote is: Equate Mother Earth with your Mother and serve both with equal honesty.

One day you will also become a sweet Mother, so have faith on them always. They will never make you unhappy in the long run.

Answer 2

I don't think his parents would whole heartedly agree to their son marrying an older woman. Neither would your parents. If you want to marry him and he agrees too, I think it would be largely without parental consent unless they happen to be very liberal and considerate. However, you can test your parents' possible reaction by asking them as to what they think about a woman marrying a younger man, without actually revealing your intention of marrying your boy friend. He can do the same at his end. That would give you both some valuable information as to how to proceed any farther, if at all.

Answer 3

Dear, First r u both in such relation ,for taking consent of parents, being elder by 3 years is no bar. First n foremost thing u both should acknowledge your good affair.If yes u r
bound to get success.

Answer 4

Look things do change while u r in college....
U r mature but he might be childish with his thoughts....
Don't fall in such decisions so early.... Take some more time may be u find the right guy at the right time.....
Girls do get emotional soon.... No need to cry!

Answer 5

let both of u perspire for a good job ...then u can decide of disclosing to their parents ...now try to stand on ur own lwgs taht will change the perspective u look at ur life and also u will find way to convince ur parents

Answer 6

if your friend too love more than u then u go in Court and get marry if u r age is more than 18 and your friend is more than 20.
we wish u all the best

Answer 7

hi expensive !! Howz ya ?? so which you're in a topic of marriage. ok. in accordance to me, marriage is bringing 2 unknown families mutually. it is asserted that if u marry going against your mum and dad, god provides lot of issues to that couple. So on a similar time as thinking of marriage, each and every member of ur kinfolk's attention is taken into consideration provided he/she is eligible. yet in view which you have long gone against your mum and dad, i won't have the ability to assert which you will final long on your marriage. this occurs plenty in those couples who go away their mum and dad for the a million whom they love yet they fail to realize what mum and dad have finished for their very own youngsters via killing their dream (ur mum and dad dream) so as that their toddler shouldn't go through or think of so which you could no longer be stored apart from the entire team/society. After their marriage, in the previous each and every thing each and every thing will bypass standard basically, yet in an prolonged time, the combat starts off. This creates plenty sin afterwards. to stay away from those forms of, you like plenty and tonnes of expertise and believe between the two one among you. Secondly, you're staying in twenty first century, the century of technology and technologies, how are you able to suspect somebody who has only study your kundali. He has no longer been and could no longer b with you for the entire existence time. end believing on your kundali and superstition. think of what you like from existence coz guy is the manufactured from what he thinks. Its your existence, so which you are the only in charge for despite happens on your existence and you will basically might desire to spectacular the blunders. do no longer ask actual all and sundry, do exactly what your heart says. So decrease short, bypass with your heart and do basically that your heart says to you. God bless you.

Answer 8

It is better to have older husband due to men's psychology. Forget a younger man & findout somebody older than you.

Answer 9

Is he of age? If so screw the parents. If your happy your happy. If he is underage, Be an adult and if you love him, you can wait till he is of age.

Answer 10

yea i think it should be okay, and if they don't like it then screw them. As long as you guys are happy, your age doesnt matter. Good Luck!