my bf has a baby face, happy-go lucky, very generous, kind,loyal and helps you in any way he can. what sucks though, there are too many girls who likes him, like him. I used to laugh about it but now, it's just frustrating! we know how girls can get. i know he's loyal but what if the girl makes the first move and we all know, he's just human. and what frustates me more and what make girls like him even more is that he doesn't know that he has a strong impression on girls! i told him about it once and he said he didn't care because he loves me, I'm super glad about that but I can't help it, those girls just frustrates me! help! what should I dO????
2007-03-17 01:49:49 · 11 answers · asked by aeijae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im in the same situation with my bf, except he is 3000 miles away most of the time.
You just have to trust your instincts with your bf, sit him down and make him realise how you feel and how far girls will go to get a decent guy.
And never let your bf know you said ''i know he's loyal but what if the girl makes the first move and we all know, he's just human.''
He could take it the wrong way, either as him thinking he can get away with it or accuse you of not trusting him [not saying he would think that, i dont know him but just to be sure]
Just make sure he understands exactly how it makes you feel and dont let him brush you off with denying he has that affect on girls.
You have to make your feelings clear in a way that doesnt make him think you're overly jealous.
But dont over think it or dwell too much on it, trust me it will just lead to extreme paranoia and thats poison in a relationship.
2007-03-17 01:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Chyme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling,it frustrates a lot,but they is less u can do here, u cant restrain dos girls,u cant deny him the chance to socialise,so lol all dat u can do is tell him how u feel and dat u hope he will mange to let go of temptation,or better tell him dat u trust him and his love for u
im sorry lol dat u are going thru dat,girls can really get to ones heart
2007-03-17 02:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by loveguru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your self esteem has been damaged but he should not change but be aware that he may be too nice to woman that mey be threatening to you. You say that GIRLS like your BF. What about guys? do guys like hanging out with him? Or is it with just woman? if it's both then it's just his personality but if it's just woman then he should tone it down with the woman and he should do it if he loves you as he has said to you.
2007-03-17 01:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by chazzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, stop worrying and be grateful he's yours and no one else's! Try to remember that as you walk down the street with him...every other girl might like him but he only has eyes for you!
2007-03-17 01:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your tiring yourself, you said you talked to him before and he said that he doesn't care cause he LOVES YOU...not LIKE YOU...love is a big word, so don't worry he loves you I'm sure and those girls envy you, trust me;)
and you said it yourself...he's loyal!!
good luck:D
2007-03-17 01:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....i understand. coz im in yr position just abit diffrent. for me, he friendly,generous..same as yrs.. bt one thing diffrent is he likes the attention bt they r all just his friends. so yr so lucky gal tt he told he he didn care abt others But YOU. he loves u Only :D
2007-03-17 01:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by wirdo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like him because he keeps showing them him c o c k and he wrote a note on it that says "eat me"
2007-03-17 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
treat him right and be happy that he's yours. He must want to be with you so don't worry about the other girls.
2007-03-17 01:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He chose you for a reason, all I can say is remember that.
2014-06-13 02:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool
2015-10-12 05:57:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋