theres this girl that i like, her "friends" don't like me, so they are trying to get her to not like me and it worked cause now she doesnt wanna be friends anymore, she won't even listen to me for one second, what can i do to fix this???
2007-03-17 01:48:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i lost her as a friend, i want to get her back, i'm not gonna quit, thats what everyone wants, and if u think i'm giving up you are wrong
2007-03-17 02:03:25 · update #1
Okay, listen, there's pretty much two ways you can look at this, and only you can decide which is whats happening.
One way is that if she's willing to just throw you away because her friends don't like you, she is NOT worth your time, and she may not like you like that... and I understand completely that you probably don't want to lose her, especially as a friend, so maybe you should just concentrate on being her friend for now. And maybe that's all you'll ever be... honestly I don't think she's worth the time it will take to get her to go out with you when you could be spending it on someone else.
The other way you could look at it is that she DOES like you, but her friends may be putting pressure on her to choose either them or you... and in most girls cases, their friends will always come before their boyfriend or potential boyfriend... and if that's the case, its only natural that she would choose them, even though thats simply caving in to peer pressure on her part.
So use your own judgement... if you think she likes you, i'd say keep trying to talk to her and do what you can to get her to realize that her friends arent the ONLY people that matter. If you don't think she likes you, maybe just get your friendship back in order and move on to other girls.
Hope I helped!
2007-03-17 02:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by xxEquestrianxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on if she's being like this simply because she's listening to her friends, then she's not worth it. She's a dumb biatch that will realize she made a mistake and will eventually come back, in the meantime move on and start hanging with other's.
2007-03-17 09:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by ash84102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to write down how you feel about her and give it to her in a note.that way she wont have to say a word to you and she will read it.even if shes not with her friends she will read it alone.
2007-03-17 08:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by xxkerryxcxx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on, she's not worth it.
2007-03-17 08:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋