i'm addicted to voyeurism..help?

Question

i think the reason that im always lonely and alone...no friends who really care for me..my family is usually out..nobody to talk to..what can i do??

Answer 1

Below is the definition and possible cause and suggest you need to get some help. :You need to stick with it and not be afraid to get help. It is better than going to jail and being publicly anounced what you do and then also making others feel so small and degraded at invading their privacy. That is wrong. Please seek some psychotherapy as soon as possible. I also listed the website below. There are also websites that talk about it, but I suggest that you find your nearest psychotherapist through your work. They are confidential. Stick with it and make sure you throw out your equipment or give it away. Stay away from anything that has to do with it or that may tempt you. Don't forget to pray about it. Pray for strength.

Voyeurism

Category

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Paraphilias and Sexual Disorders


Etiology
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There are different theories related to exhibitionistic behaviors, many stemming from the psychoanalytic camp. They suggest that childhood trauma (e.g., sexual abuse) or significant childhood experiences can manifest itself in exhibitionistic behavior.


Symptoms
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This disorder is characterized by either intense sexually arousing fantasies, urges, or behaviors in which the individual observes an unsuspecting stranger who is naked, disrobing, or engaging in sexual activity. To be considered diagnosable, the fantasies, urges, or behaviors must cause significant distress in the individual or be disruptive to his or her everyday functioning.


Treatment
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Treatment typically involves psychotherapy aimed at uncovering and working through the underlying cause of the behavior.


Prognosis
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Prognosis is good although often there are other issues which may surface once the behaviors are extinguished. If this is the case, these issues must be worked through as well.

Answer 2

A guy goes to the U.S. Post Office to apply for a job.
The interviewer asks him, "Have you been in the service?"
"Yes," he says, "I was in Vietnam for three years."

The interviewer says, "That will give you extra points toward
employment." and then asks, "Are you disabled in any way?"

The guy says, "Yes, 100%... a mortar round exploded near me and blew my
testicles off."

The interviewer tells the guy, "O.K. I can hire you right now.
The Hours are from 8:00 A.M. to 4:00 P.M. You can start tomorrow. Come
in at 10:00 A.M."

The guy is puzzled and says, "If the hours are from 8:00 A.M. to 4:00
P.M.

Why do you want me to come in at 10:00 A.M.?"

"This is a government job," the interviewer says. "For the first two
hours we stand around scratching our balls... no point in you coming in
for that."