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well he was soooo eager to get my number and to ask me out, however he canceled our first two dates cos the first time he worked late and the secont time he was busy...

He keeps asking me out.....but seems to have plans on so many days...especially wekends???

do you think theres another girl??

WHY WOULD HE KEEP ASKING ME OUT IF HE doesnt LIKE ME??

he seemed kinda shy but common get over it Should i give him another chance

2007-03-17 01:31:03 · 13 answers · asked by <3 ...sEz... <3 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

after that i told him I was busy cos i had plans (when i didnt)

2007-03-17 01:39:27 · update #1

13 answers

You should not give him another chance. Early in the relationship, both people are generally trying to focus on the other person and impress them. If he can't even make the time that he is supposed to spend with you a priority in his life during this period, you have no shot at getting him to pay attention to you later on. Unless he is a Doctor, Police Officer, or some other profession that is on call constantly and this is the reason for the last minute cancellations, you should cut your losses and look for someone who is more attentive.

2007-03-17 01:38:57 · answer #1 · answered by Timothy_Hobbs 1 · 0 1

If i were you... i just go and surprise him if he works late.. get him some takeaways and appear at his workplace.. and yeah... then go with the flow... a date is about the quality time you spend with him, having a good convy while he drives you home can be a date too.... *smilez* he be genuinely touched i bet... unless you caught him lying or having another girl... then you be genuinely pissed off,.... SwOoOoOsh..... all the best *winkz*

2007-03-17 08:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Knight Diyar 2 · 0 1

Trust me, if he keeps asking you out, he's most likely not making up reasons he can't be with you...
If i was in his situation, i would feel really bad because I would feel like i was annoying you by keep on doing it. Just let him know that he's not being annoying and that if he found a time that would work, that would be great!!!

2007-03-17 08:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by sexydogfight 1 · 0 1

be true to yourself..if u are sure of being serious in a relationship with him,get on with it,give him a little more chance.but if u're not into him,then just remain as friends or just give him some time to explain to you his situation..just be happy,dun be sad..=)

2007-03-17 08:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by aNjAsMaRa 2 · 1 0

it does not bode well for any future relationship --- if he is not able to make time to see you at this early stage ---- even if he is not in another relationship --- then what would it be like if you started seeing each other --- i would suggest forgetting about him --- if he is not interested enough to meet you then he is not interested enough to have a worthwhile relationship with you --- best wishes

2007-03-17 08:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0 1

Don't give hiim anymore chances...he had plenty....there are plenty of fish in the sea.....you deserve to be with someone who would do anything to spend time with you!

2007-03-17 08:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0 1

Tell him the next time he ask you out, to forget it. Tell him you are too busy. You have to wash your hair.

2007-03-17 08:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0 1

If you like him give him as many chances as you like.

2007-03-17 08:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I think that he wants to go out with you but makes up excuses bcuz he's probably afraid.....of what?........I think its commitment or sumthing who knows, Give him one more chance and if he screws up let him gooooooo!!!!

2007-03-17 08:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Crazilicous 3 · 0 1

no more chances-3 strikes, he's out.

2007-03-17 09:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 1 1

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