He says he likes me but doesn't want anything romantic but he calls me and plans things with me. He is morning a lost love who just died 9 months ago, so confused....
2007-03-14 03:00:03 · 6 answers · asked by BB5150 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way he is now my business partner...is that ok
2007-03-17 07:20:55 · update #1
He desperately needs a female friend who can be comforting and nurturing to him during this time of loss -- a friend who can keep the line between friendship and lovers as thick as a brick wall.
If you can resist the urge to have sex with him, and feel that you are capable of keeping him from going down that road with you also, then you're a candidate for his recovery.
It will not be easy because compassion can easily be mistaken for passion, and your sisterly love for him can easily be construed as erotic love.
So, remember the difference between the two kinnds of love, Brotherly Love and Erotic Love, and keep it locked into the former and away from the latter.
2007-03-14 06:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants someone to comfort him. Just be there for him for now until he gets over his lost love. I guess if you want something more from him, then move on & don't hope for anything more from him to prevent you from getting hurt or confused. But stay with him to comfort him, because when the time comes and you need someone to comfort yourself, he'll be there. Be his friend for now and nothing more.
2007-03-21 20:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by _____ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well my X's told me that too but hey guess what we dated...but the thing about it was that i got in his face about it that was just the way we were with each other see he told me it would never work out and i said how the heck do you know anyways and then one night we really got to talking about it and we were dating before morning!!!!!
2007-03-21 20:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl4ever8889 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is yearning for companionship -in the mostly platonic sense. he is definitely well into healing. Please don't confuse his plans with you for romantic interests unless he says he is looking for more. This is a very confusing time for him. Please honor this time of healing and just be his friend.
2007-03-21 19:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by DJA30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs a FRIEND...if you can't be just that then move on and if you like him more than a friend move on..and whenever in doupt...do not do it..it is God telling you No....
2007-03-22 02:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now just let flow it will come .let him hel his heart just b a friend for now
2007-03-22 02:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋