We went out for two years. Things were not so good the last 2 months. I was kind of a ***** to him at times. He out of nowhere told me to leave and never come back, that he had enough of my nagging. I was yelling at hiom becase he was smoking weed and he would not open the window. The day beofre that we were hugging and telling each other how much we loved one another. When he told me to never come back I did not leave. I stayed and cried near him for 2 hours and he said he could not take me anymore, he did not olike the person that I was. He even laughed at me and told me to just move on. Do you think he still cares about me and thin ks about me? I want to talk to him......
2007-03-09 23:59:34 · 13 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is he lived in a smal smal apartment and could not even pay te rent, and he could not work b/c he did niot have a car and I just want him to have a good life.
I would have helped him
2007-03-10 00:09:50 · update #1
No I'm afraid he probably doesn't care about you and from the sounds of it hadn't for a long time, possibly never.
From your additional information, it sounds like there may have been some codependency issues in the relationship. If you did get back together, things would probably be just as bad as those last two months, probably worse.
You want what is good for him, that makes you a good person, but you are probably better off without him.
2007-03-10 00:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he was in the frame of mind to know if he cares or not. I think it may be a good thing for you to not be with a man who is smoking weed...
That is not legal , and not to mention what it does to your brain cells. There are other men out there...
I agree get over this guy...
Take some time to figure out who you are before you start dating again , find out what you like .
I also have realized in life you can not change a man. So if you go into the relationship with that mind set you will get hurt every time.
2007-03-10 00:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kelli W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK . you need to let it go. You have made some bad choices and and done somethings in a manner thatwas not right. Helooks at you now in a not good way.You can not change him if he does not want to. Iknow you want the best for him and want him to be happy. But he may not be ready for that just now.Take it slow and let him be himself and do not tell him anything.Do not call do not go see him do not do anything.Give him some space.If you bother him he will only run from you more.And YOU haft to look at yourself and do some sou searching on what you really want in a man!!!!!!!!!!!Find one that fits what you really want in one and DO NOT SETTLE till you find him.No more nagging and no more trying to change him for what you want. Because if he is already what you are looking for then you both will be happy.
2007-03-10 00:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u remind urself how beautiful and wondeful u r and u dont need a man in your life who does not apreciate u or match your attributes.. u can do much much Muuuuch better... your heart was in the right place and id nag him too but as much as u might have loved him.. help those who help themselves.. u CANt change a man so right now i suggest u concentrate on u.. treat urself.. get a new hair cut or colour.. go out hav fun.. and to get over him.. remove EVERYTHING about him out of ur immediate presence.. throw em away.. store em far away.. whatever.. and always rememebr all the time your sendin thinkin about him? is he thinkin about u?? Yours beautiful hun and you deserve someone better.. use dat tantra to forget about him.. distractions help aaaaaaaaaaand dont compare n e 1 to him unless ur sayin.. wow the new guy is sooo much bettr compared to that old fart.. now i know how i shud be treated.. Like a queen.. a Queen damnit! which u r.. stay strong
2007-03-10 00:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by *PYT* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you were a betch and you nagged him all the time, what makes you think you'll change your tune if he takes you back?? Besides, if you go into the trash and take out a half-eaten sandwich from the day before, do you imagine it's going to be fresher than it was yesterday? Move on and learn a valuable lesson...
2007-03-10 00:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest forget that kind of man, dont be solf coz u will get hurt deeper. there are many kinda of people who care more about u. and the way people care is not the way ur boyfriend treat u. u should know that. and move on with ur life. find a better person. let the past behind and never looked back, if u wanna be happy.
2007-03-10 00:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl drop that zero and get a hero!!!! first of all you dont need anyone that is doing drugs. thats for losers. and you dont need anyone who wont open the window so you can breathe. and if he really loved you he wouldnt make you cry. not on purpose anyways. hes cruel to have said the things he said to you. dont sit around and cry over him. hes not worth the salt in your tears. go on with your life . find an awesome guy and rub it in . let him see that you moved on with your life and that your happy. and if and when he calls and wants you back remember to tell him. hey bud you blew it. you told me you didnt want me and you didnt like the person i am. so go find someone else i did. and if he told you all that other stuff and laughed at you . no he dont care about you and he dont want to talk to you. dont even waste your breath on him. good luck to ya hope you find the guy of your dreams
2007-03-10 00:06:56 · answer #7 · answered by tx_lady_806 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hunny u dont need a guy that smokes weed anyways! Drugs r 4 losers!!! Anyways get ur girls together and do something fun! And so what girls are supposed 2 be bitchy, trust me Im the biggest ***** I know and every1 still loves me! He'll get over it and realize he misses you or you'll realize that you dont need him! Either way stay away for a while and just see what happens AND REMEMBER life goes on! Good luck hunny!
2007-03-10 00:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are in danger of ruining future relationships. The guy has no balls, take a break from men and go find yourself. You have to love yourself to love others. Go with your friends on a beach holiday, be bad for a while, you will feel better
2007-03-10 00:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like you have the basis for a long term reltionship. Maybe you should move on.
2007-03-10 00:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋