i was in a 5 year relationship, and i loved my girfriend very much but she sis the dirt on me twice, i took her back and at 15 monthes ago on a sunday she slept with me tpold me she loved me and then next day i got a text mes. its over thats it, i later found out she was with another man, a i treated her very good i she walked away from a house car and she was free to do and go where she wanted i trusted her yet she decieved me. now i find it hard to reconise if a girl likes me or not and if she does how to i react, im not fake i like to be myself i have a great sense of humour and and love being with and treating that special someone like a woman should be treated,with love yet i cant seem to find anyone and i cant seem to pick up on the tell signs if a woman likes me and how do i ask them out ????
2007-03-09 23:55:04 · 12 answers · asked by neo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be friendly make her laugh she will let you know if she likes you by the way she responds
2007-03-09 23:59:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet women where? If its in a bar then make eye contact and if she breaks then thats a no no, is he does a double take, go over and talk to her. You will know within 30 seconds if not only she likes you, but you like her. If its a mutual friend or an aquaintance then you will probably be able to tell in how she acts when she talks to you or is around you. The hardest thing i think you will have to deal with though is not taking out what happened to you in your next relationship, and i dont mean by you being nasty to her. Love like you have never been hurt as the saying goes, so so so much easier said than done. Just relax dude and take your time. Make sure you have fully healed before you jump in again
2007-03-10 03:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by benny blanco from the bronx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you had a bad relationship with this woman. I think that you should wait till you feel you are ready for a new relationship. If you have a great sense of humour , you want to treat a woman like she should be treated and you wanna be yourself then you have everything a girl wants...Sometimes after a difficult and weird experience we think that we'll never be able to date again or to recognise if someone likes us. Well I think that you cqan recognise if someone likes you and you can ask a woman out very simple. You just ask while you're smiling: << What about going.....>>. Houmor also helps just try it and be confident!
Good luck
2007-03-10 00:06:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a man likes you he will just strike up a conversation and see if you have anything in common with him and then if so ask you out...
Do not play games you will only get hurt again...
Do not go into a relationship saying how horrible the last one was.
And deffinatly do not compare new girls to old ones...noone likes to be compared to an old girlfriend.
SO if you feel like there is someone that you can talk to and feel comfortable being around. I would suggest you ask her out. Good luck and God bless
2007-03-10 00:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman likes you, (depending on the type she is) she will want to talk to you, get your attention, she will smile and laugh, she will retrun your gaze, look you in the eyes and be happy to be near you. The best way to let her know you like her is to smile also, talk to her, ask her about herself, (don't always talk about you), look her in the eyes when you talk to her, listen to what she has to say and last but not least don't try too hard to impress her. If she likes you she will like you for who you are and you will not have to try to get her attention. Not all women are like your ex and it sounds like she was a rather confused person anyway, not really knowing what ot who she wanted out of life, besides being rather fickle with telling you she loved you and the next day ending it all. You deserve better than that and not a person who is so volatile. Focus on yourself, heal, develop your confidence, keep smiling and the right girl will come your way, I promise!
2007-03-10 00:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by SK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been hurt, so take it easy this time around I PRESUME THAT,
you are quite youngish so you have time to get to know a women you
meet before you commit yourself to a relationship, be real tell the person
who you have seen, I LIKE you can we go out................Take the lady out
for dinner, wine and dine her, do not be to pushy then everything else
will fall into place...it is sometimes hard to meet the right person, so
find something that you are interested in and you may meet someone
with similiar interests...If you then find that you like her she likes you,
then you can get into the other stuff the sex thing etc.....Put on the brakes
a little though just coming out of one relationship and entering another
can put you at a disadvantage emotionally.........................................................
Think everything through carefully, and get yourself a girl who is genuine,
then you will know if she is being sincere...........................................................
2007-03-10 00:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by gorglin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For beginners, you can ask her for her e-mail address and then invite her via internet if you can't do it in person.
This one guy gave me his phone number last week and wanted me to call him if I wanted to go out for coffee.
Generally you can tell if someone likes you if their eyes light up when they see you.
I will show you a trick, I have telepathy and can telll when someone is thinking about me. I am thinking about them, so chances are she maybe also thinking about you too.
Pray you will have the confidience to ask her out, a person who never takes risks or chances stays where they are. Try to be straight forward and whatever happened in the past happened today is today. Rise up as you deserve better and you can do better.
2007-03-10 00:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does anyone around u, take care of your health? If yes, she loves you. U can act to be sick and find out who asks you, your health, u can ask her to be with u for the visit to the doctor.
2007-03-10 00:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by anwesha08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sincere. Invite her out for a cuppa and take it from there. don't rush. Let event takes it own course.
2007-03-10 00:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check along with her, get to renowned her, appreciate her corporation and take it slowly. you would be waiting to work out if she likes you in that way then or on the different hand be blunt and flow on if the solutions is unfavorable.
2016-12-18 09:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋