how do i take a guys virginity where he not nervous and how do i help him with out making him feel like he no good at it.
2007-03-09 23:33:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is my bf and he says he feels he is ready
2007-03-09 23:37:19 · update #1
we are engaged but because im going uni we not getting married until i finish uni
2007-03-09 23:40:41 · update #2
Just tell him to relax...I'm sure he wants to do it, just feels a little pressure.
Start making out with him and then...you know...keep going. Do it at least twice that night, so he can feel more confidence since he'll last longer the second time.
2007-03-09 23:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Captain Jack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nervousness will fade, and be replaced with anticipation. You will get used to each other-everything is new. My husband was a virgin, and I was more nervous than he was I think. I kept asking him if he was sure he wanted to do this. He was 21 years old at the time, and I am almost 13 years older than he is. I had never been with a guy who was a virgin either, until him & I had no idea what to expect either.
He said he was nervous, felt like he was squishing me lol...but he didn't say anything. In 'the heat of the moment', I wasn't thinking about him being a virgin-I had totally forgotten already!
All guys are different-some know exactly what they want to do, and do it, while others need to be coaxed or told what to do. That leads to the fact that all women are different, so you need to let him know-preferably ahead of time things that you like...he might remember, he might not. Just do whatever comes natural for you, enjoy the moment, because I'm sure he will be enjoying every minute himself!
2007-03-10 00:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Little Jeannie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BJ is right, for a good starter. If he's a virgin, he will be able (and want) to come back and do the real thing in a few minutes.
Don't look at him much, let him look at you... keep your eyes closed.
If he does something you like (even just a little) tell him you like it. If you want it easier or harder, let him know, not like a teacher but "you need it now."
Just act real turned on. The next time you can teach him some things. Just don't let him know that you are teaching him... just say that you would like to explore him and you would like him to explore you. Keep asking him if he likes this or that and he will start asking you as well.
I doubt this is the case but understand that some men get real hot by a more experienced woman... e.g., prostitutes.
2007-03-09 23:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You marry him first.Some guys like to play "nervous virgin" to get some.Hope you arent falling for it.Also he may be a closet gay and making excuses.Tell me tho, what happens if you "pop his cherry" and you get pregnant and then he isnt intrested in you anymore?Or he goes to another girl?Or decides he likes guys instead?What will your self worth be then?Stay out of trouble and you wont have to worry about any of that.You do it with the guy your married to and it's less likely that your self worth will be at stake.
2007-03-09 23:39:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing this? Leave this man alone, if he wanted to give it to you, he would make it very clear. And then it would just simply progress from there. It is natural instinct, for goodness sakes, animals can have intercourse. God bless****
2007-03-09 23:38:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a "guy" not a "boy"! Relax take it easy give plenty of "signals!".
If that doesn't work then he's gay or doesn't fancy you! Sorry about that but not all guys are sex mad fools.
2007-03-09 23:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by mrhoppy22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth- you are an easy whore who was been with too many guys for your age, and now you like to pretend that it's ok for girls to ask questions like this and pretend you are the daddy mac.
2007-03-09 23:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by joey k 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
boy i wish i meet you 26 years ago ,just dont tell him and let him practise and eventually he will get better
2007-03-09 23:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you "taking" someone's virginity? honestly, it will be awkward for both of you. be responsible, use protection, and just be yourself.
2007-03-09 23:38:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He'll be fine. It comes naturally.
2007-03-09 23:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋