well, things that happen during a relationship, fights, over jealous, can change a persons feelings for the other person,,,,,,,,, perhaps sitting down and really talking with her about the past,,,,,, not sure what you were fighting over, you say things she did that you didnt like,,,, were these things dangerous to her or you,,,,,, or just you trying to enforce your opnions on her? why were you jealous? did you have reason to believe that she really was cheating,,,,,, or was it just jealousy on your part??
i would really talk with her,,,,,, discuss it all,,,, see if changes can be made, and if there is enough deep love for the relationship to last
either you were being possesive and trying to dictate her life and not respecting her, or else she was a dangerous living cheating woman,,,,,,,,,, or maybe some combination of the two
2007-03-09 23:35:47
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answered by dlin333 7
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Stay with her. Give her time. Take her out to a beautiful dinner and buy her a wonderful gift. Treat her like shes everything. Do whatevr she wants. That what a real man would do. Show her that you are a gentleman and will take care of her better than any other man could. Treat her like when you two were first dating. Treat her with respect ,love and show her how much you care about her. These little fights are the fights that you have when you're married. If you have been dating her for 1 year dont break up with her. Take her out some where that she will remeber for the rest of her life. This isn't little boyfriend and girlfriend things anymore, its real life. If you take my instructions, you two will both fall in love all over again.<333
2007-03-09 23:36:00
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answered by Anonymous
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It's highly probable that she does have another Horse in the Barn. Or, at least has one in sight. Be a Man, and go your own way. You've got a Heart, that deserves to be Loved. If she ain't willin'? You ain't got time to fool with her. Some IS out there. You'll see. Listen to the ol' Rugster! You're a Winner. Go out there and find her!
2007-03-09 23:33:25
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answered by Goggles 7
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Give her a break, leave. Your suspicions and sense of your own self-importance in this relationship made her wary of your controlling ways.
You don't fight with people who don't think your way is the only way, if you love them you reach a compromise. If you can't do that and only want to dictate then you will have to marry a woman with only half a spirit.
2007-03-09 23:36:06
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answered by justa 7
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Sounds like your in quite a problem here.
If she says she does not love you the way she used to that is true. What she means is that she loves u but not in the way that she did like drifting apart. What you need is to talk to her have a long talk with her and try and patch things up she might be having doubts about the relationship and she probably feels that it is going nowhere. so talk to her
2007-03-09 23:32:32
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answered by Jade L 2
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You are an idiot. If you think you can base a relationship on "fight with her on tight stuff" then you are a loser and she will be gone completely before long. It's not YOU who has to give HER time. You have to give yourself time to grow up so you can stop being an imbecile.
2007-03-09 23:32:46
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answered by Anonymous
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you need to sit back and survey the situation ,do you still feel the same about her,are you going anywhere or a you just treading water if you answer yes ..time to move on
2007-03-09 23:34:51
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answered by matty60 4
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it is not going to work out for you and her, she is trying to get out of it already.. let her go..
2007-03-09 23:31:38
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answered by wongfiehung2003 6
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give her some time to think and privacy, meanwhile u too. cheers.
2007-03-09 23:36:31
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answered by Anonymous
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dump that *****
2007-03-09 23:31:05
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answered by Jerrica Starlight 5
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