for the reasons that he can't marry me because he can't go out with his marriage also, is it worth to stay or not?And i am fed up also with his promises.
2007-03-09 23:27:27 · 8 answers · asked by taurust_girl27 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
get out now-if he hasn't asked you yet he most likely never will-especially if you live with him-he probably thinks why should he get committed when he already has you/doing everything he needs and wants-have you seriously sat him down and talked to him about it?which i know you shouldn't have to do but remember he is a guy! but than again you did mention that you are fed up with his promises-so obviously you must have been talking to him about it-so just get out -you are putting your self through too much emotional pain-and you know as well as i do that you do not deserve that-you deserve to be happy-he may not be the one the one may be waiting for you to find him-and who knows it may just teach him a lesson if you get up and leave-he might just figure out how good he had it-and like the saying you don't know what you got unll it's gone!!one more thing he also may think that you really aren't going to leave him so he's not too worried-but show and teach him that you are strong enough and you don't need him to survive-well hope all works out well for you what ever you decide to do,only you know what is best for you!
2007-03-10 00:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by ang925 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant commit to you, and you want to get married that best thing for you to do is leave. Its been a long long time 10 years but dont look at it as being wasted years just that its time to move on and take the next step either it be with him or someone else. Let him know why you are leaving and that you want to settle down with someone who will marry you. Perhaps after he sees that you are serious about this he will ask you to marry him. But if not than its best to leave and not look back.
2007-03-10 11:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's married you shouldn't be seeing him. Ten years is a lot to invest for nothing. Get some counselling and regain your life.
2007-03-10 15:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out. he has already wasted ten years of your life with empty promises. never play second fiddle to anyone. and you always will whilst you let him. tell him you're no longer interested in coming second to his wife, and leave!
good luck. you're worth so much more!
2007-03-10 09:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by noodle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now you sure dont want to say if you not happy. it not worth it to stay if you fill this way.
2007-03-10 07:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid is as stupid does! you should have gotten out long long ago! What a waste!
2007-03-10 07:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run!
2007-03-10 07:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by r k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with him. he truly loves you.
2007-03-10 07:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by rubix909 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋