2007-03-09 23:09:46 · 28 answers · asked by neo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're not looking for fun. They never looked for love.
They are looking for money.
2007-03-09 23:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most women have been hurt and are just being really cautious so that is why they are out for fun and not love so they need a man that will stick by them, someone that will prove to them that he is out to get to know her and wants to spend time with her and have a relationship with her...well that is how my friends and i feel anyway. As for the soul mate thing i am in the same boat as you, i think it is just a matter of having patience really when it is right you will feel it!
2007-03-10 07:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find your soulmate is to not be looking for them. I know this seems like a strange thing to say but it's true (according to almost everyone I know who claims to have found their soulmate). Soulmates tend to show up in your life when you least expect it or when you had given up all hope of ever coming across one. My advice to you in short is: Stop looking, focus on yourself and when the time is right Ms Right will appear in your life. I disagree that most women are out for fun and not love these days. What is true is that most women are conditioned and encouraged by societies values these days, to show that they want fun and not love. (Sex in the City generation for example). To want love is seen as a sign of weakness, letting the side down, showing that you need a man and are not an independent woman. Most women, no-matter if they show it or not, want love. Yes, they want fun too, but many times they have also been hurt by love and this is another reason they do not look for it..
I hope this helps and good luck!
2007-03-10 07:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by SK 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Proletariat British women are really unrefined, don't go looking in clubs you won't find your soul mate there. All they like to do is get so drunk that they can't remember where they are, they dress terribly in clothes that make them look bad and then they like to collapse on the roads, I feel embarrassed to be from the same gender.
Try other places, not everyone is the same. Women are more likely to be looking for a long term relationship because the majority want to get married etc.
Or better still just hop on a plane and get yourself a traditional lass from Italy or something!! Classy and not drunk out of her head!!
2007-03-10 07:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by The Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Most women" obviously means most women you have met.
Women are different nowadays because they have busy home and work lives.
Finding a soul mate is about finding someone who knows how you tick and can make you tick.
We girls are sometimes not very good at putting our hearts out there too soon to a new man in case he breaks it. Take it slow and easy and it will happen for you.
There are women out there looking for their soul mate too! And we aren't all interested in the size of your bank balance.
2007-03-10 07:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dirty Blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is out for fun. I've been looking a long time for my soul mate - maybe we can get together!!! Seriously, maybe you're looking in the wrong places. Go out and do things you enjoy and stop focusing on finding someone. When you least expect it someone will come along - that is what I hope.
2007-03-10 07:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm one who believes that The Soul Mate thing? Is left to to other Factors, that we can't control Once, Something" feels you're ready? You'll find that person. NOW! Women do want Love? But they like running you around? To see how you react to certain things. Kind of like driving the Car, around the neighborhood. To see if everything is like the Owner says. They wanna be sure that you haven't put any sugar in the Gas Tank! If you're being Run Around? She may be checking your Engine. Think about it!
2007-03-10 07:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all women are out for fun! but they are out for fun AND love! when you can put the two together then you will find your soul mate! every soul has a mate!
2007-03-10 07:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by MiZz RuBy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
myself i don't buy the whole soul mate thing,but if your already thinking like that then it sounds as if being single makes you not to happy and these are the kind of vibes a person gives of without even trying,which is a turn of for most dolly birds, so the best thing to do is to just not try to hard ,chicks don't dig desperate guys,and remember to be polite smile flirt a little and even if you really like a girl try to find the balance between showing you like her but not caring about it to much
2007-03-10 08:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by coopsradar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are starting to realize that they don't need love. They are finding personal fulfillment by being independent. Everyone could use a little fun sometimes, but romantic love is unnecessary.
2007-03-10 10:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the age old answer. Prehaps youre looking too hard. Love will eventually find its way to you. I never thought i would settle down but i met my mrs and couldnt believe that i would ever get along with her let alone marry her. Its a waiting game and it sometimes is a very long waiting game. Dont try and impress just be yourself. And good luck
2007-03-10 10:15:20 · answer #11 · answered by Jonnyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋