My current of six months has told me a few times her ex has called and she's spoke with him. I know they broke up 6 months before I even met her and I know he lied, cheated and broke her heart.
Our relationship is at the stage where I am considering long term commitment, even marriage and kids but I do not feel comfortable with her communicating with this guy - they have no kids or other ties to have reason to even talk. I know he wants her back and so I am wondering if she has really had closure with this man.
I know she couldn't even tell her family about this man because they would never had approved...she's already introducing me to her family and I feel so much love from her so I am wondering why I feel uncomfortable with her talking with him...I just feel that if I were her I'd have nothing to say unless they was no real closure.
2007-03-09 22:50:29 · 6 answers · asked by Optimusnorm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...it is not okay, what you need to do is talk to ur partner about how u feel. You need to express ur concerns
2007-03-09 22:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you won't be american.. I would have thought you were my boyfriend!!even if he doesn't tell me I understand that he feels just the way you do!but.. I have to reassure both of you... there's nothing he can do to take her(me too.. ) away from you!we a woman says stop.. it is for life!!you don't have to be worried about this,she doesn't love him anymore.. otherwise she wouldn't have told you that.. good luck.. and marry her.. :-)
2007-03-10 07:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by §chiisai onna§ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.... ur just a sit in... no offence man but some women just tkae second best til they get what they really want.... its like us guys would almost screw anything.... by the looks of it you "hooked up with her" when she was feeling emotionally screwed up... now only you have yourself to blame.. learn a lesson.. get her the help she needs. and move on
2007-03-10 06:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need to ask her why she is taking to him and if she still have feel for him and if not than ask her in a nice way that you don't like her talk to him and than tell her how you love her
2007-03-10 07:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably becaus he hurt her.Thats why you dont like him.I dont like any of my guys exes cause we are all so afraid of being compared.But seriously.she would not be with you if she did not love you.And i talk to my exes all the time.normally to make them see how much better my life is without them
2007-03-10 06:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by kill_the_barbies!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he did all that to her and shes still talking to him it means she really still love him
BUT
maybe no thats only what i think
so why dont you ask her ?? just sit down together and ask her
2007-03-10 07:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Roy Keen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋