I mean a short hi would have suffice even if ure busy. Just a bit upset
2007-03-09 22:25:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is infantile behaviour. If you are upset, tell him. There is no need for games.
2007-03-09 22:30:25 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how close your relationship has been, if his calls have decreased from every day, twice a day to 4 or 5 days, then maybe you need to ask him what is going on in his life that you have not heard from him. If you get no satisfactory or logical answer, and you feel upset, there is nothing wrong with letting him know you would like to hear from him more often, even if only to say "hi". Then, if he does it again, yes. The cold shoulder would be a good idea.
2007-03-10 06:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving someone the cold shoulder when you are actually glad to hear from them is playing games. Men hate that. If he's too busy for you and you are not even married yet, he is not that interested in you. My husband called me constantly when we were young and in love. Now, my granddaughter's bf texts her constantly. When he calls, be really too busy to talk because you have moved on. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-10 06:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should try to know why he has been this busy...perhaps some family or work problems?if not..then it's alright to give him a cold shoulder...i mean..he should've atleast found some time to say hi and why he is that busy!but try to understand each other rather then giving cold choulders..it increases the gap..and tell him not to do that ever again.good luck:)
2007-03-10 06:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's probably your gut reaction to not talk to him but, the better thing to do is to act like it doesn't bother you. Yeah, a quick hi is easy enough but some guys don't think that way all the time. Let him talk to you first (don't talk to him first!) and if he does, don't bring it up and don't be mean to him. He'll wonder why it doesn't bother you. If you complain about it, it'll only annoy him. Either way, you won't appear bitter about it and he can't say you went psycho because he didn't call and you've kept your dignity.
2007-03-10 06:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be questioning if I did something wrong. That is just me though. But yes I would be a little pist if he didn't call. It would make me wonder what he is doing. Who knows though its up to you he could just be really busy.
2007-03-10 06:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by pinkmaniac86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to give him another day or two. Then try to talk to him and see how he acts. If he does not seem intrested in you try to find someone else.
Good luck
2007-03-10 06:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Eric D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all...!!! if u love him..then u should have some flexibility in ur relationship.....
who knows if he is really busy..!!!...
give him sm time cuz it is u who have chosen him...n just have faith in him...
n truly speaking it will be very harsh on him if u decide on basis of couple of days..!!!!
2007-03-10 06:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by cool boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id want a damn good explanation.... and not yah-drama
2007-03-10 06:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋