what can i do legally to get her out of my house I'm so ashamed.?

Question

my mother has been living in my house 4 seven months now and was suppose to have been gone after 3 months.she has no respect for me or her grandkids she calls them bitches and hoes and me also.she even jumped on my 16 year old daugther for no reason. i called the police and they wouldnt do anything she hasnt paid any rent or bills since she been their and ive and the girls have lost total respect for her.shes nasty and doesnt clean up after herself shes says im suppose to take care of her also and she talks about me and the girls to her coworkers at work on the phone were they can here her saying everything to her co workers.she is really starting to stress me an the girls out,there grades are dropping in school because of whats going on in the house.my sisters dont talk to her because shes is crazy an shes never set a good ex. for us as we were coming up. and i forgave her now shes telling the girls that i slept with her husbands thats why her marriages didnt work help me please .

Answer 1

I am very sorry to hear about your situation. You tried to do something responsible and through no fault of yours, it's not working.

Family relationships can be very difficult. Sometimes behavior that we wouldn't tolerate in a stranger, we tolerate from family. That doesn't make it right or acceptable.

Your first priority is your children, making sure that they have a stable and loving home to grow up in. Obviously your mother is making that impossible. It's bad enough when it affects you, but it's totally unacceptable for it to be affecting your children.

I think it's admirable that you tried to help your mom in her time of need. However, she obviously has no respect for anyone, she's selfish, argumentative and cruel. It's time for her to move out.

Legally I think you may have to seek the advice of an attorney or something along that line. You need to do "whatever" it takes to get the information you need to get her out of your home.

Your mother is setting a poor example for your children, and disrupting everyone's lives. Mother or not, she does not have the right to ruin your lives. You do not owe her your happiness or that of your children.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck and I wish you and your children well.

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Answer 3

If the apartment or house is in your name and there is no rental agreement between you and your mother, she is a free loader and can go at anytime. Put her out and change the locks. I can't believe the police wouldn't help. If there is a rental agreement between you, you will have to give her 30 days or get an eviction notice depending on the rental agreement. You can always call a lawyer, they will answer a few questions for you free of charge. Remember, your children come first. Your mother will have to figure out how to take care of herself.

Answer 4

This is not a good situation for you and your children to be in, but about the only way you can solve it is to go to evicitons court.
Because your mother has been with you for 3 years now, It is considered her residence. Make sure when you go you have a copy of your lease if you rent all your bank records to prove she has never paid you, and all documentation that may be pertinent to the Judge. Good Luck

Answer 5

You can go to court to legally evict her. Check with Legal Aid to see if they are able to advise you.

Tell your mother that she has one month to get out -- and file for eviction in the meantime.

If you want to be mean, then you can treat her the way she is treating you, but that will not set a good example for your girls.

( Although I would be tempted to tell the girls -- when she can hear you and preferably when she is on the phone ---"Don't mind grandma, she's delusional!")

Talk to your sisters to see if you can come up with a plan to get her into some other housing --if she is working, she ought to be able to afford someplace to live.

Answer 6

If the apartment or house is in your name, you are the legal tenant or owner. First tell her you will give her one month to find her own living space out of your house. After the month is up, get the door locks changed while she is out and send her belongings to a location where she can pick them up without re-entering your home, such as a sister's place or another relatives' home. If your name is not on the lease or deed where you live, it will be much harder to get her out without police or legal action against her on your part. However, you must protect your children from her abuses.

Answer 7

grab the silly b**ch by the scruff of her neck clothes and all and sling her outside...cause im sure as hell if ANYONE and i do mean anyone ...mother or not cussed at my kids id be spending a long long time sewing mail bags...if you wanna be a better mom than yrs get her as far away from yr kids as possible

Answer 8

Go to your States Attorney Office and tell them you want her removed from your home. They will contact the Sherrifs department.

Answer 9

Talk to a lawyer to make sure you are covered and then change your locks and put her stuff outside. She is ungrateful and mean.

Answer 10

when shes not home take your kids, your things and leave her without her knowing and without letting her know where you are also pay your rent that is do this month and give your place up.