I have a girlfriend,the only thing to make happy is to give her money and buying her sweet things. Please help me to find solutions to my problem.
2007-03-09 21:55:11 · 29 answers · asked by ISAAC A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Spend quality time with her and show her life is more than about money. If she doesn't appreciate the effort, then she never will, move on! There are other women who do.
2007-03-09 23:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by heartbreaker200752 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop giving her money and start doing the simple things like take her out for a meal, walk in the park arrange a picnic for tommorow if you can and take her to the seaside for day ect.
If hse hates any of the above them I am afraid she is not right for you as if she loves or cares for you anything you do will make her happy.
Money does not buy love or form close relationship of honesty and trust being together and not expecting anything does.
All is not lost as dont want to sound all doom and gloom you may really care for her perhaps growing up her family showed their love or shut her up with money or gift and not cuddles,listening,talking and showing any emotion.
if you like her try and found out family background to see if this if not she may just be a spoilt brat and never change up to you then if this is really what you want from a relationship. Not all women are like this you know and you sound a kind good person who would make someone a great catch.
2007-03-10 06:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by momof3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to ask this question..did your gf loves you? or she said he loves you because you always giving her gift, because showing love its not depend on money and gifts only. I have online bf but mind you i am happy with him even he never give anything, money or things. The essence of relationship is how you keep your love in giving her your precious time and showering her words of love.
2007-03-10 06:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her for a picnic in the mountains, or take the weekend out in the mountains, so that when you alone where money isn't really important, do those things that make you and her happy that don't necessarily need money. when you come back she might have changed her attitude and perception of what real love is.
2007-03-10 06:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off ....... this is not a healthy relationship . no matter what you give her it will never be enough . if she isn't happy with you to begin with and it takes money and gifts to "raise her spirits" ... than she is either a gold digger ...........or worse .. she has a habit and your gifts are supporting it ..... what ever that habit may be ........... buying things for someone you are dating is dangerous ground .......... birthdays,Christmas,anniversaries yes !
cheering her up every other day no !
the division between sadness and happiness is just like that between a nice guy versus a good one .......... be good ....... not nice ...... there is a difference ...........
2007-03-10 06:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Brian C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cook her a meal and pay her loads of attention. Tell her how lovely she looks and that you are lucky to have her. Just give her loads of love. Money doesn't buy love so stop buying her gifts all the time.
2007-03-10 06:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your buying her affection and time ? Sorry but that is how it sounds . She should be happy with you and NOT with your money .
I can understand nice things from time to time . I dont think you should shower her with gift's to make her "happy" .
2007-03-10 05:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by wendieann1064 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You prob won't like this but if you have to buy your way into her heart then just dump her, she's not worth it and if you are willing to be that loving and giving im sure you could find someone that is worth it...good luck!x
2007-03-10 07:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by zzzzzzzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave her because if the only way to make her happy is give her money than yiou need to move on.
2007-03-10 05:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds selfish wanting just money and sweet things. Sorry but she should want you for simply being you
2007-03-10 06:05:43 · answer #10 · answered by jellybean55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋