well. help me! what do i do? i really like him still.
2007-03-09 21:54:09 · 3 answers · asked by **iM iN NEED 0F LUBB** 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You may very well like him. The real question is does he care about you. That is all that matters. If he doesnt then you will have a difficult and wasteful time in all you do to win him back. I have tried it and still without the other. She doesnt have the same fellings that i have. I want to start new with her but she wont. Its weird how you feel im sure. Just think about this, has someone like you in a certian way and you didnt feel that same way toward them, well, ouch. Look at it that way and you may have a new tool to work with.
2007-03-09 22:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by james.ampmerch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all,dear...im sorry bout yr break up. i know how much it hurts..but u will make thru it. its very common to feel the way you're feelin right after a break up...but these are just the initial pangs of separation. wait a while to see if u still feel the same. more importantly..ask yrself why u want him back...im sure u vguys would've made some wonderful memories....but think bout the reason for yr break up...there must've been somethin big coz of which u had to end yr relationship...are u ready to live with it incase u get back together? once u get back..all these pangs will get over..being with him might be comforting,but will u be be able to stop resenting the reason for yr break up? these are question u need to answer to urself honestly. If he was the reason for the breakup,are u ready to forgive him for whtever he's done...? are u forgiving him honestly,or is it just because its difficult to be without him...if its the latter....think bout it...coz it doesnt generally help. if u forgive him,forgive him with all yr heart.othrwise the same probloems will re-surface one time or another. If u cant forgive him,dont force urself...time's a great healer.
In case u were the reason for the end...find out ways to remedify wht u did. Honestly bring change to urself..n tell him u love him.
It really depends on wht kind of relationship u guys have had...if u really loved each other...n if the reason for the break-up wasnt too bad....u might still have a chance. But till then,keep composed...wait a while..get ur feelings in order..n then make a move.
Good luck
2007-03-10 06:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?
2007-03-10 06:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by schuschtermat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋